Ua raws li cov lus qhia no, koj yuav rov qhia ib tus menyuam uas poob rau qhov ua kom zoo, nkag siab thiab nkag siab txog tus menyuam.
Vim li cas rau tus menyuam piam
Mob-suav hais tias yog upbringing system. Ntau zaus, vim muaj qhov tsis sib xws ntawm tus qauv kev ua niam ua txiv, tus me nyuam yuav poob. Piv txwv li, niam tsev hais kom tus menyuam mus pw tom qab 10 teev tsaus ntuj. Thaum leej txiv tso cai rau nws tus me nyuam nyiam zaum ntev dua ib nrab teev lossis teev. Cov teeb meem tuaj yeem tshwm sim vim kev sib txawv ntawm kev saib xyuas ntawm kev ua niam ua txiv ntawm leej txiv-niam txiv thiab pog yawg. Feem ntau, cov pog yawg ua rau lawv cov xeeb ntxwv, thaum niam txiv ua qhov zoo tshaj rau pacify tus neeg hlub. Qhov tshwm sim yog pom tseeb. Tus menyuam pib tswj cov neeg laus. Kuj ceeb tias, nws ua nws zoo heev.
Cov menyuam yaus ntev kawg li. Nws tsis pub leejtwg paub tias ntau tus txij nkawm muaj teeb meem txog kev yug menyuam. Qee tus muab lawv txoj haujlwm ua ntej, vam tias yuav "nyob rau lawv tus kheej" tom qab. Qee tus neeg tsis tuaj yeem cev xeeb tub. Muaj ntau txoj kev xaiv. Qhov tshwm sim yog tib yam - cov menyuam yug tshiab yog qhov chaw ntawm Lub Ntiaj Teb rau txhua tus puag ncig - rau niam thiab txiv, rau pog thiab yawg, rau txhua tus, txhua tus neeg, txhua tus. Yog lawm, qhov no tsis yog ib qho kev phem. Tus menyuam yog qhov txuj ci tseem ceeb. Koj tsis tas yuav hlub nws ib nrab, nws tsim nyog ntau. Tab sis! Koj yuav tsum paub thaum yuav tsum. Tsis txhob thab nrog menyuam. Thiab tsis txhob pub lwm tus ua. Tsis txhob nrhiav kev tiv thaiv tus menyuam los ntawm txhua yam. Tsis txhob ya ntawm qhov cub tag nrho los daws qhov teeb meem me me ntawm crumbs, cia nws sim ua nws tus kheej ua ntej. Tus menyuam nws yog tib neeg ib yam li koj thiab. Nws tsis muaj peev xwm yuav muab nws tso rau hauv lub tawb kub, tiv thaiv nws ntawm txhua yam kev phem thiab txaus ntshai. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob txawm tias sim ua qhov no, txwv tsis pub koj yuav tsum tau muab tso rau hauv kev coj ua cov lus qhia uas kuv yuav muab me ntsis hauv qab no rau cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam uas piam.
Kev tsis meej pem nyob hauv lawv cov kev xav txog kev tu menyuam. Feem ntau, cov niam txiv tshiab ntsib qhov teeb meem zoo sib xws, uas nrog tag nrho lawv lub siab xav kom tsa tus menyuam ua qhov zoo thiab txawj xav, tab sis tsis paub yuav ua li cas. Lawv tsis nkag siab yuav ua li cas coj tus me nyuam, dab tsi pub thiab dab tsi txwv. Qhov tseeb, tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi txaus ntshai txog nws. Peb txhua tus tau raug hlawv ib zaug los ntawm peb tus kheej ua yuam kev, txhua tus niam txiv tau ntog thiab tau lees paub txoj hauv kev lawv ua niam ua txiv. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom tsis txhob pib qhov xwm txheej, lossis tseem tsis zoo, tsis txhob cia nws mus. Txwv tsis pub, koj yuav tom qab ntawd koj yuav tsum sau cov txiv ntoo ntawm koj tus kheej ua haujlwm.
Tus me nyuam lwj yuav loj hlob li cas?
Kev txhoj puab heev; tsis muaj zog; tiv thaiv tsis tau; khib; neeg ntshaw; tsis paub tseeb ntawm lawv tus kheej; tsis tuaj yeem txiav txim siab.
Los ntawm qhov no nws yog qhov tseeb tias qhov kev cia siab tsis yog yam mob siab tshaj plaws. Qee yam yuav tsum hloov pauv.
Yuav rov qhia tus menyuam yaus uas piam sij li cas?
Cov lus qhia tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom tsis txhob saib qhov twg los ntawm cov menyuam yaus piam. Cia li ua nws tsis yog sai sai, tab sis maj mam. Qhov ib, qhia koj tus menyuam kom ua siab ntev.
Piv txwv li, ib tug menyuam yaus thov kom tig pob kasfes rau nws, thiab lub sijhawm no koj tsis khoom nyob hauv chav ua noj. Piav qhia rau cov menyuam yaus uas puas lawm kom paub tseeb tias yuav tsum kos duab, tab sis 10 feeb tom qab koj pub dawb. Lawm, nyob rau hauv teb koj yuav hnov quaj, qw thiab paub zoo stamping ntawm ob txhais taw me me. Nov yog qhov tsim nyog tswj hwm koj tus kheej. Thaum kawg, koj tus kheej txiav txim siab rov kawm ntawv ntawm tus me nyuam uas puas lawm. Tsis txhob khiav tawm! Ua txuj tias tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim, mus txog koj txoj kev lag luam, tab sis tom qab 10 feeb, tseem qhib lub TV.
Lwm qhov piv txwv, hauv khw, tus menyuam nug kom yuav lwm yam khoom ua si. Hais tias koj tsis tau nqa ib qho nyiaj ntxiv nrog koj hnub no. Thiab ntxiv, tsis txhob tso rau hauv. Tsis yog, tsis yog. Nws tsis tsim nyog, tau pom thawj zaug tsim kua muag, kom nrawm nrawm mus rau daim tshev tawm nrog lub menyuam roj hmab-tshuab-tsheb ciav hlau.
Yog li ntawd, tus menyuam yuav tsum to taub tias tsis tsuas yog nws lub siab nyiam thiab cov whims, uas cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig nws kuj yuav tsum tau rov suav nrog. Ua ntej tshaj plaws - nrog niam thiab txiv.
Tom qab ntawv nrog tus menyuam tham. Qhia rau nws tias koj tsis tau yuav nws ib qho khoom ua si, tsis yog vim koj tsis hlub nws lawm, tab sis vim tias koj tsis muaj nyiajCog lus tias koj yuav yuav los ntawm kev them nyiaj thawj zaug uas koj tsis tau yuav hnub no. Thiab tsis txhob hnov qab ua tiav koj cov lus cog tseg, txwv tsis pub tus menyuam yaus yuav xav tias koj dag nws lawm. Tom qab ntawd koj tseem yuav tawm tsam nrog menyuam yaus cov lus dag, vim menyuam yaus qog tus cwj pwm ntawm niam thiab txiv.
Qhia meej rau tus menyuam tias koj tsis tau tso tseg kev hlub nws ntau dua li yav dhau los, nws tsuas yog qee zaum nws cem niam thiab txiv nrog nws tus cwj pwm. Tsom ntsoov rau qhov no. Tias nws tsis yog tus menyuam nws tus kheej uas npau taws rau koj, tab sis nws tus cwj pwm. Txwv tsis pub, tus menyuam mos yuav tuaj yeem xav tias koj tsis hlub nws vim nws tsis zoo. Menyuam yaus lub siab ntsws yog qhov nyuaj heev. Koj yuav tsum tau ua tib zoo saib xyuas koj cov lus, thiaj li tsis mus ua rau cov kev sib raug zoo ntxiv nrog tus menyuam.
