Ntau tus niam txiv npau suav ua lawv cov menyuam tsis yog leej niam lossis leej txiv nkaus xwb, tabsis yog ib tus phooj ywg tiag. Tom qab tag nrho, ib tug phooj ywg yog tus neeg hwm koj, nrog tus neeg koj tuaj yeem sib tham nrog tus taw sib npaug, qhia tag nrho koj cov teeb meem. Thiab nws yuav tsis txiav txim rau koj thiab yuav tuaj cawm koj ib txwm. Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem coj ua tus phooj ywg zoo rau lawv cov menyuam.
Siv sijhawm nyob ua ke. Cov menyuam xav tau niam txiv tsis yog thaum lawv tseem yau xwb, tabsis nws kuj muaj hnub nyoog loj dua. Sim ua si thiab taug kev nrog koj cov menyuam ntau. Yog lawm, tsis muaj leej twg lawb tawm haujlwm thiab cov haujlwm hauv tsev, tab sis txawm li ntawd los, koj tuaj yeem siv sijhawm ntau nrog koj cov menyuam. Piv txwv li, thaum koj rov qab los ntawm kev taug kev, ua su noj lossis ua tus tu ua ke, thiab sib qhia cov xov xwm thiab teeb meem nrog lwm tus hauv cov txheej txheem. Kev sib koom tes yog qhov zoo heev. Yog tias cov menyuam pom tias lawv niam lawv txiv txaus siab rau lawv lub neej, lawv tau txais kev txhawb nqa txhua hnub thiab ntseeg lawv ntau dua thiab ntau dua., yog tus menyuam xav qhia nws tus kheej. …
Qhia tias koj ntseeg siab. Yog me nyuam pom tias cov laus tsis ntseeg nws, nws yuav npau taws, rho thiab pib dag. Tab sis ntawm rooj plaub tsis sib haum, nws xav tias lub luag haujlwm thiab sim ua kom rov qab lees lwm tus. Qhia nws cov lus zais me me rau nws, qhia nws kom nws tsis zais. Npaj ib qho khoom plig ua ke, rau ib qho ntawm koj cov txheeb ze thiab zais nws, nws yuav yog koj qhov zais cia.
Tsis txhob tsis kam txuas lus. Yog tias koj tus menyuam xav nrog koj tham, tso nws cov khoom tseem ceeb cia. Tus menyuam yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias cov niam txiv npaj mloog nws lub sijhawm twg los tau. Tej zaum nws nyuaj rau nws los txiav txim siab txog qhov kev sib tham no, thiab lwm lub sijhawm kev sib tham yuav tsis ua haujlwm lawm. Thiab cia cov me nyuam tham ua ntej, txawm tias tsis tseem ceeb, zoo li nws tshwm sim rau koj, teeb meem, tab sis sijhawm dhau los, thaum lawv loj tuaj, lawv yuav tig los rau koj nrog txhua cov lus nug.
Tsis txhob txiav txim. Qhov no tsis txhais tau hais tias tus menyuam yuav tsum tau nqa nrog txhua yam. Koj tuaj yeem tawm tsam ib qho kev ua, tab sis los ntawm tsis muaj ib tug neeg. Tus menyuam yuav tsum to taub tias nws tsis yog neeg phem, tab sis nws ua. Qhia meej rau tus menyuam tias cov niam txiv chim siab rau nws tus cwj pwm, thiab lwm zaus koj yuav tsum tau ua qhov txawv.
Kev sib cav. Tso rau tus me nyuam paub txhua yam, tau kawg, tsis yooj yim sua. Peb yuav tsum tsis lees txais qee yam, txwv tsis pub qee yam. Tab sis tsis txhob hnov qab muab cov laj thawj rau koj qhov kev tsis kam. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum to taub tias qhov no tsis yog niam txiv whim, tab sis muaj qhov laj thawj rau txhua yam.
Sab laj nrog koj cov menyuam. Ua txhua yam teeb meem hauv tsev neeg nrog cov menyuam yaus. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau tus me nyuam paub tias nws lub tswv yim kuj tseem ceeb hauv tsev neeg.
