Dab tsi poj niam tsis nyiam khoom plig? Muaj ntau yam kev cai hais txog yuav ua li cas thiaj li zoo siab txais khoom plig. Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm lawv yog kom paub koj tus kheej muaj nqis thiab tsis suav koj tus kheej rau qee yam yav tom ntej.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Nqa khoom plig, ua tib zoo nthuav nws, saib ntawm lub pob khoom plig lossis ntawm tus txiv neej. Pom dab tsi tus txiv neej muab rau koj, luag nyav, hais ua tsaug thiab hnia nws.
Kauj ruam 2
Yog tus txiv neej muab khoom plig rau koj uas kim heev, yog tias koj tsis npaj kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog nws, rov muab qhov khoom plig ntawd rau nws nrog cov lus: “Ua tsaug. Tab sis kuv tsis lees txais cov khoom plig muaj nqi heev los ntawm cov txiv neej. Yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej pib qhia rau koj tias nws tau muab qhov no “ib yam li ntawd”, tsis txhob ua li cas ranting txog “koj txhua tus hais yog li ntawd,” tab sis categorically tsis kam dua.
Kauj ruam 3
Yog tias tus txiv neej muab khoom plig rau koj txawv dua li qhov koj xav tau, sim luag ntxhi rau txhua qhov, nco ntsoov hnia nws thiab ua nws tsaug. Tsis txhob ua rau nws ntxhov siab lossis thab.
Kauj ruam 4
Yog tias tus txiv neej muab koj ib yam dab tsi los ntawm cov khoom hauv tsev (piv txwv li, ib lub lauj kaub), tom qab ntawd hnov mob li koj xav lwm yam khoom plig. Nws yog tau hais tias nws twb tau txiav txim siab koj li tus txij nkawm lossis tsuas yog tsis to taub dab tsi tiag tiag yuav tsum tau muab rau cov poj niam. Tshwj tsis yog, tau kawg, nws yog tus neeg sawv cev ntawm pawg neeg saib xyuas kev lag luam, uas xav ua kom haum siab rau cov neeg ua haujlwm ua ntej Hnub Yim Lub Peb Hlis.
Kauj ruam 5
Yog hais tias tus txiv neej, nthuav tawm khoom plig, tos thiab nyem tawm ib yam dab tsi zoo li: "Kuv tsis paub dab tsi muab rau koj, tab sis ntawm no …", sau cov pob khoom kom sai li sai tau (kom txog thaum nws dim ntawm kev txaj muag) thiab hais nrov nrov: "Zoo nkauj npaum li cas!", Txawm tias koj tsis nyiam qhov khoom plig txhua. Tso nws rau hauv qhov chaw tseem ceeb rau tsawg kawg yog ib hmos.
Kauj Ruam 6
Yog tias koj twb nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog tus txiv neej, ces lees txais khoom plig los ntawm nws, tab sis nco ntsoov qhia koj cov lus (hauv ib daim ntawv me me) yog tias qhov khoom plig tsis haum koj nrog qee yam (tshwj tsis yog tus nqi).
Kauj Ruam 7
Yog tias nws muab nyiaj me me rau koj lossis daim npav rho nyiaj nrog cov lus: "Yuav koj tus kheej uas koj xav tau," mus kav khw thiab xaiv qee yam tsis yog rau koj tus kheej nkaus xwb, tab sis kuj rau nws (tsawg kawg yog qee yam khoom me me). Tej zaum, thaum nws tau txais khoom plig, nws yuav nco qab tias nws zoo siab npaum li cas rau lawv.
