Kev sib yaum ntawm cov me nyuam hauv tsev neeg muaj ntau. Nws tuaj yeem ua raws hauv cov ntawv me, tsis muaj dab tsi, lossis nws tuaj yeem ua tau ntse heev, ncav cuag kev tsis sib haum xeeb. Nws nyob ntawm ntau yam, ua ntej txhua yam, ntawm lub hnub nyoog txawv thiab tus cwj pwm ntawm niam txiv.
Nrog lub hnub nyoog tseem ceeb sib txawv (4 xyoo thiab ntau dua), kev sib tw yuav luag tsis pom. Tom qab tag nrho, tus menyuam hlob sai tau siv rau lub luag haujlwm ntawm tus neeg saib xyuas thiab tus tiv thaiv tus yau, thiab tus yau yuav luag tsis tau nrhiav dua los sib tw nrog cov laus, paub txog nws txoj cai. Yog hais tias lub hnub nyoog sib txawv tsawg, kev sib tw muaj peev xwm tshaj tau. Thiab ntawm no cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau ua si lawv lub luag haujlwm.
Lawv yuav tsum tsis txhob sib piv cov menyuam yaus, muab piv txwv rau lwm tus. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws los ua tiav hauv ib cheeb tsam tshwj xeeb. Yog tias koj qhuas ib tus menyuam txhua lub sijhawm, xav kom lwm tus ua piv txwv los ntawm nws, ua tiav qhov ntsuas tib yam, tom qab ntawd qhov tshwm sim nrog 99% yuav sib txawv: qhov "tus swb" yuav hnov khib thiab tsis nyiam nws tus tsiaj neeg sib tw. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev los txhawb lawv cov menyuam.
Ib qho laj thawj rau kev sib tw ntau: tus menyuam hlob, tom qab tuaj txog ntawm tus yau hauv tsev, hnov qhov tsis tsim nyog. Nws yog qhov tseeb tias cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau mob siab rau kev dag nrog kev sib faib thiab lub zog rau tus menyuam, thiab tsis yog rau tus menyuam hlob. Qhov no tsis tau txhais hais tias txhua yam uas lawv tau ua tsis tshua nyiam nrog lawv cov laus! Tab sis nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm tus me nyuam nws zoo nkaus li zoo li qhov no: ua ntej nws tau hlub, saib xyuas, thiab tam sim no nws tseem nyob sab nrauv nrog leej niam thiab leej txiv. Nws raug tsim txom los ntawm kev chim siab thiab khib siab.
Yuav kom tiv thaiv tau qhov no, niam txiv yuav tsum npaj tus neeg laus npaj tos tus me nyuam ua ntej. Nws yog qhov zoo uas yuav muaj kev sib tham nrog nws, tej yam zoo li no: “Hawm txog, koj paub tias tsis ntev koj yuav muaj ib tug kwv tij (tus muam). Tus me nyuam yuav tsis paub tag, nws yuav tsis tas qhia tias nws xav tau yam twg, yam nws xav tau. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj xav noj, koj tuaj yeem qhia peb txog nws, thiab peb yuav pub koj noj. Yog tias muaj qee yam tsis zoo rau koj, koj yws yws thiab peb yuav pab. Thiab tus menyuam mosliab thiaj quaj nkaus xwb! Yog li ntawd, peb yuav tsum them nyiaj ntau rau nws, tab sis qhov no tsis yog vim qhov ua peb tau ua rau hauv kev hlub nrog koj tsawg dua! Thiab tom qab qhov tsos pom tus me nyuam nyob hauv tsev, txawm hais tias tag nrho cov qhov khoom tsis khoom thiab kev nkees, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau muab rau tus menyuam hlob dua qub ob leeg hlub thiab saib xyuas. Nrog rau txoj hauv kev no, thawj-yug yuav coj cov tsos ntawm tus menyuam yau tshaj plaws ua kom yau, sai sai poob rau hauv kev hlub nrog tus menyuam.
