Cov me nyuam tsis yeej ib txwm ua si peacefully thiab calmly nrog txhua lwm yam. Feem ntau lawv sib cav sib ceg ntawm lawv tus kheej, "hu npe", thiab ib tug sib ntaus yuav ua txhaum tawm. Tab sis cov cim no pom tias muaj kev tshwm sim zoo li yog kev tsim txom cov me nyuam yaus. Nws yog ib tug txawv teeb meem thaum ib tug me nyuam yog txhoj puab heev dhau kev ntsuas, thaum nws tsis tau txais nrog rau tej yam nws cov phooj ywg, thiab fights tshwm sim yuav luag txhua txhua hnub. Tom qab ntawd koj yuav tsum nrhiav qhov chaw ntawm kev ua nruj ua tsiv nyob qhov twg.
Cov me nyuam Aggressiveness yog ib tug manifestation ntawm tus cwj pwm txawv ntawm txoj kev chim siab, npau taws heev heev, npau taws. Txhawm rau tiv thaiv kev ua phem rau menyuam yaus, koj yuav tsum nkag siab tias vim li cas cov kev xav no tshwm sim hauv tus menyuam lub siab. Feem ntau cov feem ntau, cov hauv paus hniav yog muab zais rau hauv tus cwj pwm ntawm cov neeg laus. Cov no tuaj yeem yog: • Niam txiv qhov kev tsis txaus siab rau tus menyuam lossis kev ntsuam xyuas tsis zoo ntawm cov kev ua tas mus li; tib neeg thiab tsiaj txhu. Thaum tiv thaiv kev tawm tsam me nyuam yaus, kawm paub txog nws cov phiaj xwm sab nraud. Cov npau taws me nyuam clenches nws ruaj ruaj, nws lub ntsej muag yuav siv sij hawm nyob rau hauv ib tug tsiv qhia, tag nrho nws lub cev tenses. Yog tias koj pom cov phiajcim no hauv koj tus menyuam, sim coj nws txoj kev xav tsis zoo mus rau qhov kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb. Kev, piv txwv li, mus qw tawm tag nrho cov kev tsis txaus siab tiv thaiv tus neeg ua txhaum nyob rau hauv ib chav khoob khoob; cia nws tuav ib daim ntawm tej rooj tog los yog ib tug hauv ncoo; sau rau ib daim ntawm daim ntawv tag nrho cov offensive lus uas nws xav hais tias, thiab ces lub kua muag no daim ntawm daim ntawv. Cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem thov kom kos nws txoj kev npau taws kom nws nyob ntawm ntawv. Rau cov menyuam yaus muaj kev ntxhov siab ntau dua, koj yuav tsum tsim cov xwm txheej uas yuav tsum tau ua kom muaj kev tawm dag zog ntau ntxiv: sau npe hauv tshooj kis las lossis tsim kis las kis las tom tsev. Cev ua ub ua yuav pab tau qhov kev tso tawm ntawm adrenaline, tab sis qhov no tso tawm yuav tsis ua mob leej twg. Npaj lub luag hauj lwm-ua si ua si nrog tus me nyuam: tus tub hluas enthusiastically ua si "tsov rog", ua pov thawj lawv lub zog thiab siab tawv rau ib tug xav txog tej yam yeeb ncuab (nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, koj) Cov. Txij lub sijhawm, koj yuav tsum tau hloov ua lub luag haujlwm kom tus menyuam muaj lub sijhawm, muaj lub luag haujlwm ntawm tus neeg raug tsim txom, kom txaus siab rau qhov tsis txaus siab qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev tawm tsam. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tsis tau ab tsi rau lub neej ntawm koj tus me nyuam, vim hais tias feem ntau cov me nyuam aggression yog ib txoj kev nyiam xim rau koj tus kheej. Txaj muag rau menyuam yaus cov dab neeg, tsis txhob maj thuam thiab rau txim rau koj tus menyuam rau qhov kev ua txhaum me me. Conversely: qhuas muaj, Txawm li cas los me me, tau nyob rau hauv tej cheeb tsam. Loj txog yeej tsis tau zoo rau leej twg; yog hais tias tus me nyuam tsis ua txhoj puab heev, ntshai yuav txiav txim nyob rau hauv nws tus plig. Thiab rau cov harmonious kev loj hlob ntawm ib tug cwm pwm, kev to taub, pab koj tu siab thiab zoo siab hlo ua pab nyob rau ib feem ntawm cov niam txiv yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev. Cov txheej txheem tseem ceeb ntawm kev tawm tsam kev txhoj puab heev yog tus yam ntxwv ntawm tus kheej. Yog hais tias tawv, authoritarian kev sib raug zoo muaj zog nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg, nws yog yuav luag tsis yooj yim sua los mus kov yeej tus me nyuam aggression.
