Cov thev naus laus zis niaj hnub ua rau nws muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus, txawm hais tias koj tus kws kho lub ntsej muag nyob sab nraud ntawm lub ntiaj teb. Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb heev, ua ntej txhua yam, rau kev txaj muag, tshwj tseg cov neeg uas pom tias nws nyuaj rau kev hais lus hauv kev muaj tiag. Piv txwv li, ib tus neeg uas xav tuaj thiab paub ib tus ntxhais, tab sis tsis tuaj yeem kov yeej nws qhov txaj muag, ntshai ua nws tus kheej lom zem, nws yooj yim rau kev sib txuas lus nrog nws los ntawm e-mail, Skype, xov tooj lossis hauv kev sib raug zoo tes hauj lwm.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Keeb xeeb tsis mob. Nws yog tsim nyog sau ib cov lus hais tias ib tus poj niam ntawm lub siab yuav tsis txais los ntawm leej twg. Nws yuav tsum yog qhov kawg. Tsis txhob cia li sau ntawv “nyob zoo koj nyob li cas” lossis xa ib qho cim tsis meej rau nws. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tsum xa tsis yog "luag nyav", tab sis ua kom nws luag nyav. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom ua kom nws nkag siab tias tus neeg tshwj xeeb sau ntawv rau nws, tsis zoo li lwm tus txiv neej. Cov peev xwm uas yuav pab qhia tawm qhov tseeb yog li hauv qab no: lub peev xwm los ua kev lom zem, muaj peev xwm qhia ib zaj dab neeg tshiab lossis tsis tau hais txog qhov tseeb, lub peev xwm los qhia txog kev paub tshwj xeeb.
Kauj ruam 2
Txhua tus neeg txaus siab muaj peev xwm nug ib lo lus kom raug. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tau nug rau hauv cov kev uas tus ntxhais yuav teb. Cov lus nug yuav tsum yooj yim kom nws tsis txhob siv sijhawm ntau lub sijhawm xav, thiab tib lub sijhawm, tsis muaj qhov tsis tseem ceeb. Ntawm cov kev uas ib txwm muaj ntawm cov lus nug yog cov hauv qab no: dab tsi tshwm sim thaum nruab hnub, tau ntsuas li cas los yog ntsuas. Tsis txhob nug cov lus nug hais txog lub ntsiab lus ntawm lub neej. Zoo dua los nug txog cov txheej xwm tseem ceeb tshaj plaws thiab phiaj xwm rau hnub so tom ntej.
Theej, nws tsim nyog sau ntau cov lus muaj zog nrog lub ntsiab lus dua cov lus tsis muaj tseeb txog txhua yam. Piv txwv li, "yuav ua li cas yav tsaus ntuj?", "Koj nyiam ua yeeb yam li cas?" Tsis txhob nug cov lus nug uas yuav muab rau koj luv luv yog lossis tsis muaj lus teb. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom teeb tsa cov ncauj lus hauv cov lus thiab hu rau kev sib tham, txwv tsis pub cov ntawv xa xov yuav xaus nrawm.
Kauj ruam 3
Kev sau tus ntawv yog qhov tseem ceeb heev, vim tias koj tsis tuaj yeem ua yuam kev tag nrho. Nco ntsoov rov nyeem cov lus ua ntej xa. Cov kev ua txhaum ntau tshaj plaws yog cov lo lus tsis raug thiab txhaum cov kev cai. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom kho txhua yam ua ntej xa xov mus rau tus poj niam ntawm lub siab. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum tsim cov kab lus grammatically tseeb, txwv tsis pub nws yuav tsis yooj yim sua kom nyeem lawv. Nws zoo dua los siv sijhawm ntau ntawm kev sau ntawv, sau cov tsiaj ntawv loj, tsab ntawv ntau dua kom txhaws ntsej muag lossis tawm haujlwm tom qab.
Kauj ruam 4
Nws tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob overdo nws. Kev siv zog ntau dhau hauv kev sau cov lus yuav pom sai sai. Tus hluas nkauj yuav nkag siab tias koj muaj qhov tsis txaus siab nyob rau hauv nws thiab yog vim li cas sau qee nqe lus. Zoo dua ua koj tus kheej. Nov yog qee cov lus qhia los pab koj taw qhia qhov xwm txheej: nws yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev tswj hwm koj tus kheej thiab sim kom tsis txhob xa cov lus tsis raug, nws tsim nyog los qhia qhov tseeb ntawm kev lom zem es tsis ua txhaum sarcasm. Piv txwv li, tsis txhob twv nws tus kheej cov lus los ntawm kev siv lub suab luag tsis paub los yog cov lus "ha-ha" tom kawg.
Kauj ruam 5
Ua kom zoo siab yog qhov tseem ceeb heev, vim tias yog tias tus poj niam nrog koj sib cav, nws yuav maj nroos ua. Kev txaus siab tuaj yeem tsim ib qho kev tshwm sim uas tuaj yeem tshaj tawm thiab hu tus ntxhais rau kev sib tham. Nws raug nquahu kom nws paub meej tias koj yog tus interlocutor nthuav tsis yog hauv kev sib tsuam, tab sis kuj hauv kev sib tham hauv xov tooj thaum nws tshwm sim. Tsis txhob hloov lub sijhawm ntawm koj lub suab, ua lub ntuj. Tom qab tag nrho, nws qhov kev txiav txim siab los ntsib koj yog nyob ntawm nws.
Thaum sib txuas lus hauv SMS, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb kom pom cov kev nyiam thiab nkag siab txog dab tsi nyiam tus poj niam ntawm lub siab muaj. Nws raug nquahu kom ua kom nws paub meej tias koj mob siab siv sijhawm ntau tsis yog tsuas yog ua haujlwm, tabsis tseem ua rau koj txoj haujlwm nyiam. Koj tuaj yeem qhia qhov pib ntawm qhov koj nyiam thiab qhia tau tias nws tuaj yeem koom nrog koj cov kev ua ub no yooj yim.
Kauj Ruam 6
Lub teeb ntas yuav pab kho cov lus sib txuas lus raws li qhov yog. Qhov no yuav tsum tau ua kom tus poj niam nkag siab qhov twg tiag koj. Hauv qhov teeb meem no, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob hla kab thiab tsis txhob overdo nws. Txwv tsis pub, nws yuav kaw thiab txav mus tas li. Nws raug nquahu kom ua si, tab sis hauv kev sim. Cov lus tshaj tawm yuav tsum tau tshaj tawm tsuas yog hauv qhov kev ua ntawm kev qhuas, tsis yog nyob rau daim ntawv qhia roj. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog los tso dag tsis yog hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus, tab sis kuj ua rau koj tus kheej. Kev thuam tus kheej yog qhov pab tau rau qhov no.
Kauj Ruam 7
Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev uas nws paub qhov koj xav ntawm nws. Nws yog tsim nyog nug cov lus nug txog ntawm tus poj niam hauv lub siab, tab sis tsis tus kheej. Piv txwv li, nws ua li cas rau hnub so lossis qhov chaw nws xav mus nrog phooj ywg. Nws tseem ceeb heev kom koj nco qab qhov tus ntxhais hais dab tsi rau koj ua ntej. Piv txwv li, nws tau hais tias tsis ntev tom ntej no yuav muaj ntawv xeem nyob rau tom lub tsev kawm ntawv no. Nws yog tsim nyog xav nws txoj hmoov zoo hnub ua ntej. Unobtrusively qhia rau nws paub tias hauv koj lub neej koj mob siab rau nws ntau dua li koj rau lwm tus phooj ywg thiab lwm yam dej num. Qhov no yuav ua rau nws muaj qhov tshwj xeeb thiab tseem ua rau koj muaj kev hlub.
Kauj ruam 8
Nws tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob overdo nws. Koj yuav tsum paub yog tias nws xav tau koj txoj kev sib txuas lus, tus poj ntsuam puas muaj txoj kev xav txawv? Koj yuav tsum zam tus duab ntawm qhov whiner thiab ua kom pom tseeb tias tus ntxhais tau ntxim hlub. Nov yog ob peb txoj hauv kev: Nws raug nquahu kom paub tseeb tias koj tau txais cov lus txaus hauv kev teb. Thaum tus txiv neej xa 10 lus, thiab tsuas yog 1-2 tau txais nyob rau hauv cov lus teb, nws tsim nyog rov xav dua qhov kev sib txuas lus style.
Tsis tas yuav teb tam sim ntawd rau nws cov lus. Yog tias nws teb cov lus tom qab 7-8 teev, sim khi koj lub sijhawm. Yog hais tias koj ib txwm xa nws cov lus teb hauv tib lub sijhawm, nws yuav zoo li coj txawv txawv. Tsim nyog ntsuas qhov xwm txheej thiab rub koj tus kheej los ua ke. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom pov tseg cov lus hauv txhua tus tsiaj ntawv loj. Qhov no yuav hem tus poj niam mus deb.
Kauj Ruam 9
Koj yuav tsum xaus kev sib tham hauv txoj hauv kev. Thiab nco ntsoov tias muaj qhov laj thawj los sau ib cov lus tshiab. Nws yog qhov pom zoo hais tias koj xav xav sib txuas lus yav tom ntej. Thaum kawg ntawm kev sib tham, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom qhia rau tus hluas nkauj paub tias koj xav txog nws txhua lub sijhawm. Koj tuaj yeem sau ntawv tos hu txhua tag kis thiab yav tsaus ntuj "zoo hmo". Tab sis nws yog tsim nyog txiav txim yog tias qhov no cuam tshuam tus poj niam.
