Tib neeg tau sau paj lug dab neeg thiab lus hais txog niam li kev hlub txij puag thaum ub los. Qhov tseeb, qhov no yog qhov haib tshaj plaws ntawm txhua qhov kev hlub hauv tib neeg. Lub zog ntawm leej niam kev hlub yog loj heev uas nws tuaj yeem hloov pauv tus menyuam lub siab rau qhov zoo dua. Tab sis tus menyuam tseem hlub nws niam, thiab kev hlub no tseem muaj peev xwm muab ntau yam rau leej niam.
Menyuam kev hlub
Tus menyuam yuav tsis pauv nws niam rau ib qho twg thiab rau ib leej twg, nws tsis muaj qhov tseem ceeb dab tsi rau nws lub neej tos nws, nplua nuj lossis txom nyem. Nws kuj tsis yog lub ntsiab lus uas yuav tshwm sim hauv ntiaj teb, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog leej niam nyob ntawd thiab muab txoj kev hlub rau nws. Cov menyuam yaus nyiam nrog lub siab dawb huv thiab kev hlub tiag tiag, vim tias nyob hauv lawv tus ntsuj plig dawb huv tsis muaj chaw txaus siab rau kev khav theeb, kev npau taws, kev npau taws thiab lwm yam tsis zoo tag nrho. Cov menyuam yaus yuav zam txim tas mus li thiab yuav txuas ntxiv muab lawv txoj kev hlub, kev xyiv fab thiab kev zoo siab rau lawv.
Cov menyuam yaus raug tso pov tseg nyob hauv chaw tu menyuam ntsuag, thiab feem ntau cov menyuam tau mob siab tshawb nrhiav lawv niam tag nrho, zam txim rau nws rau txhua yam, tsuas yog saib nws thiab yuav zoo siab mus ib txhis. Ib tug menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem ntxeev siab rau nws niam lossis txiv, tsis muaj kev ntxeev siab rau lawv txoj kev hlub, thiab vim li ntawd lawv hais "hlub zoo li menyuam yaus", vim tias qhov no yog ib qho piv txwv ntawm kev hlub ci ntsa iab, tsis muaj ciam thiab tsis nyiam.
Niam txoj kev hlub
Niam txoj kev hlub rau menyuam tseem yog qhov piv txwv, thaum leej niam yuav tiv thaiv nws ntawm txhua yam kev hem thawj rau nws tus menyuam, yuav sim tshem tawm txhua yam teeb meem hauv nws lub neej, leej niam yuav sim ua txhua yam kom nws cov menyuam zoo siab Cov. Tag nrho nws lub neej, ib leej niam tiv thaiv, saib xyuas thiab tiv thaiv nws tus menyuam, vim nws hlub, thiab kev hlub no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj hauv nws lub neej, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj yog tus menyuam.
