Coob leej niam txiv to taub yuam kev tias yog koj yuav yuav ntau yam khoom ua si qhia ntawv rau koj tus menyuam, nws yuav kawm txhua yam nws tus kheej. Tab sis kev ywj pheej yuav tau qhia koj tus kheej. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los pib ua qhov no ntawm 2-3 xyoos. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog no, tus menyuam nce ntxiv hais cov lus "Kuv tus kheej", thiab qhov no zoo heev. Tseeb tiag, thaum tsis muaj qhov muaj siab, nws nyuaj rau kev qhia ib yam dab tsi. Txeeb lub sijhawm no, vim tias thaum lub hnub nyoog laus dua, tus menyuam, ntawm qhov tsis haum, yog tub nkeeg ua qee yam nws tus kheej thiab feem ntau hais kom nws niam nws txiv ua nws.
Vim li cas menyuam thiaj tsis nyiam hnav hnav
Me nyuam yaus tsis kam hnav lawv tus kheej. Lub ntsiab yog vim li cas lawv tsis paub yuav ua li cas. Zoo, nws tsis yooj yim mus rub cov ris tsho uas tsis xav mus rub lawv tus kheej, hnav ris, thiab txawm tias yog li ntawd, thiab tsis tas yuav tham txog kev hnav khaub ncaws. Cov thom khwm "tsis ncaj ncees" no, uas ib txwm muab tso rau lwm txoj kev nyob ib puag ncig, cov tes tsho uas tsis tuaj yeem, uas rau qee qhov tsis tau txais koj txhais tes. Thaum kawg, tus menyuam pib tshee, quaj thiab cuam rau lub lag luam no nrog kev ntxhov siab.
Yuav qhia koj tus menyuam li cas hnav khaub ncaws
Koj tuaj yeem qhia koj tus menyuam hnav khaub ncaws ywj siab. Nws yeej tsis nyuaj kiag li. Nws yog qhov txaus los qhia nws ob peb zaug yuav ua li cas kom ua nws kom raug. Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum ua nws qeeb qeeb, sau txhua theem: tshuaj xyuas cov khaub ncaws, ua kom du lawv, koj yuav tsum qhia tias sab twg cov khaub ncaws yuav tsum nyob sab xub ntiag ntawm tus menyuam lub ntsej muag txhawm rau muab tso kom yog. Nco ntsoov: qeeb yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Thiab qhov no yuav twb ua tau ib kauj ruam loj ntawm kev ua kom paub tseeb tias lwm zaus tus menyuam ua nws tus kheej. Thib ob lossis zaum peb, kom koj tus menyuam hnav cov khaub ncaws nws tus kheej. Cia nws muaj ib hnub, piv txwv li, tiab lossis tiab, ris lossis ris tsho.
Lwm lwm hnub, tej yam txawv cov khaub ncaws. Saib seb nws ua txhaum dabtsi. Rov ua dua cov kauj ruam no ib zaug ntxiv hauv kev ua qeeb. Koj puas tau rov ua nws dua? Tam sim no cia tus menyuam sim dua rau nws tus kheej. Yog tias nws tseem tsis ua haujlwm tawm, muab cov khaub ncaws no rau koj tus kheej, thiab lwm zaus rov ua tus txheej txheem nws tus kheej, ua ntej koj tus kheej, kho nws, thiab tom qab ntawd tus menyuam hnav khaub ncaws nws tus kheej.
Peb txoj kev nthuav dav
Koj tuaj yeem siv ob txoj hauv kev hauv qab no los ua kom kev kawm los hnav kom lom zem thiab ntxim nyiam.
Thawj txoj kev: nqa ib qho khaub ncaws. Xav hauv siab yuav muab nws tso rau koj tus menyuam. Koj nkag siab kom raug, xav hauv koj lub siab. Koj tuaj yeem ua nws sai. Tam sim no ua raws li koj xav, tsuas yog ua qeeb qeeb, qeeb. Koj tus menyuam yuav tsum muaj sijhawm los nco txog txhua yam ntawm cov txheej txheem.
Lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov qauv no yog dab tsi. Cov neeg laus ua ntau yam nws ua tau, tsis nco qab. Vim tias lawv paub yuav ua li cas, lawv ua sai sai, qhov no yog qhov qub rau lawv. Ntawm qhov tod tes, tus menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem nkag siab koj yuav ua li cas, tab sis nws tsis paub. Thiab, maj mam ua cov txheej txheem uas tau ua tiav rau koj, koj sau yuav luag txhua qhov kev txav mus los hauv tus menyuam lub taub hau. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, nws pib to taub tias koj ua dab tsi raws nraim. Tag nrho cov no tau muab tso rau hauv nws lub taub hau qhov chaw ntawm qib theem ntawm subconscious. Thiab thaum pib, nws tseem tsuas yog sim hnav khaub ncaws nws tus kheej, thaum qee yam ua haujlwm rau nws, qee yam tsis, tab sis dhau sijhawm, tag nrho cov yeeb yam no tseem yuav tau txais ncaj qha rau tib txoj kev. Nws tsuas yog siv sijhawm me ntsis thiab koj lub siab ntev.
Xav rov qab thaum koj saib kev ua khawv koob koob. Koj pom li cas cov khoom ploj thiab tshwm sim, koj xav li cas nws tshwm sim. Tab sis yog tias koj saib tib qho xwm txheej hauv cov lus qeeb, koj pib pom tias tus neeg ua khawv koob tau zais qee yam, rub qee yam. Nws yog qhov tseeb rau koj li cas kev tsom xam tawm. Nws yog qhov zoo ib yam nrog tus menyuam.
Qhov ob: Qhia koj tus menyuam tias kev hnav khaub ncaws kom yog thiab kev hnav tsis yog. Tso rau qhov pantyhose lwm txoj kev nyob ib puag ncig thiab tsis rub lawv txhua txoj kev. Cia tus me nyuam yuav zoo li lawv. Puas yog nws tsis yooj yim dua? Tam sim no hle koj lub pantyhose thiab muab tso rau kom raug. Tam sim no nws yooj yim lawm lod? Yog lawm, tam sim no nws yooj yim. Sim qhov no nrog ntau hom khaub ncaws: ris, tsho, hnav, tsho.
Thiab tom qab ntawd, yog tias tus menyuam ywj pheej tso qee yam tsis raug, nws yuav tsis xav tias nws tsis xis nyob, vim tias txhua tus zoo li ntawd, tam sim no nws yuav paub tias yog tias nws tsis xis nyob, ces muaj qee yam tsis raug.
Qhov thib peb hom yog qhov zoo dua rau dads yog tias koj muaj tus tub thiab niam yog tias koj muaj tus ntxhais. Npaj khaub ncaws rau koj tus kheej thiab koj tus menyuam. Tso tib yam. Tam sim no pib hnav khaub ncaws ua ke tib lub sijhawm. Txiv yawg tso rau tes taw thiab tus tub. Txhua yam yuav tsum tshwm sim tib lub sijhawm. Niam muab rau ris tsho thiab tus ntxhais. Tom qab ntawd hnav ris tsho. Tom qab ntawv nkawm khau. Yog tias thaum tus txheej txheem kev kawm paub, tus me nyuam tsis hnav ris tsho kom raug, tsis ua raws li niam thiab txiv, pib ua dua.
Sim nws. Nov yog cov kev qhia uas zoo rau koj tus me. Txaus siab rau ob leeg niam txiv.
Tsis yog txhua yam uas ntuj tsim nrog koj yog menyuam yaus. Tsis tas cia siab tias tus me nyuam yuav kawm txhua yam nws tus kheej. Yog lawm, tsis muaj cov neeg uas tsis paub yuav ua li cas, piv txwv li, hnav khaub ncaws. Txhua tus paub yuav ua li cas. Peb kawm ntxov los sis lwm hnub. Tsuas yog xav txog qhov tseeb tias koj tus menyuam hauv qib pib lossis tsev kawm yuav tsis muaj peev xwm ua lwm tus menyuam tuaj yeem ua. Thiab qhov no yuav yog thawj qhov laj thawj uas luag thuam los ntawm lwm tus. Thiab ntawm no yog thawj qhov nyuaj ntawm tus menyuam yaus. Cia nws tsawg kawg paub yuav ua li cas ib tug menyuam yaus ntawm nws lub hnub nyoog yuav tsum muaj peev xwm ua. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav tso siab rau nws tus kheej thiab lwm yam yuav raug txais los ntawm nws sai sai. Tsis txhob nco lub sijhawm no yog thawj zaug rau kev ywj pheej. Nov yog lub hauv paus. Thiab tom qab ntawd tsuas yog khaws cov txuj ci uas twb muaj lawm thiab qhia cov uas tshiab.
