Tus menyuam lub sijhawm nruab hnub pw ncaj qha nyob ntawm seb hom paj hlwb zoo li cas, ua txhua hnub thiab kev ua neej. Paub qee qhov kev ntxias, niam txiv yuav tuaj yeem hloov kho fidget lub sijhawm rau lawv tus kheej.
Dab tsi cuam tshuam txog kev pw tsaug zog nruab hnub?
Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam mos yuav tsum muaj kev pw tsaug zog nruab hnub. Txhua yam nws yog nyob ntawm tus kheej txoj haujlwm niaj hnub, hom ntawm tus menyuam lub hlwb, nrog rau nws txoj kev npau taws thiab, ntawm chav kawm, kev ua neej. Yog tias tus menyuam sawv ntxov, siv sijhawm ntau ntawm txoj kev thiab nquag txav mus los, ib txoj hauv kev lossis lwm txoj kev, tom qab noj hmo tag, nws yuav pib tsaug zog. Cov menyuam uas nyiam lub sijhawm lom zem dua, piv txwv li kev kos duab, nyeem ntawv, sau cov kws tsim khoom, nkees nkees tsawg dua thaum noj su thiab, yog li ntawd, tsis txhob pw tsaug zog zoo nruab hnub.
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam lub caij nyoog tso cai rau nws ua tsis tau pw tsaug zog nruab hnub, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob yuam nws pw, muab tias nws zoo siab thiab tsis yog capricious.
Kev suav nyiaj ntau
Yog tias tus me nyuam siv sijhawm txaus hauv huab cua ntshiab, nkees, xav tau, tab sis tsis tuaj yeem pw tsaug zog, ces cov teeb meem nyob hauv kev saib xyuas ntawm cov hlab ntsha tsis zoo. Hauv qhov no, nws yog qhov tsim nyog tsawg kawg ib teev ua ntej pw kom tshem tawm txhua yam kev ua si sab nraum zoov, tshem tawm qhov chaw ntawm lub suab nrov thiab ua ib yam tsis muaj cuam tshuam nrog tus menyuam, piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem nyeem cov lus dab neeg, saib tas luav, ua si nrog plasticine, thiab lwm yam. Hauv qee tus menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua 2, 5 xyoos, cov txheej txheem ntawm kev tsaug zog ntawm lawv tus kheej nyob deb ntawm qhov zoo meej, txawm tias tus menyuam mos no mus pw tsuas yog nyob ntawm tus neeg laus xwb. Qee lub sij hawm nws yog qhov tsim nyog kom xaj tus me nyuam, vilify nws nyob hauv nws txhais tes, npuaj nws ntawm lub taub hau, hu nkauj lullaby.
Txhawm rau pw tsaug zog nruab hnub, nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tau txwv tus me nyuam kom nrov thiab ua si nrov yam tsawg ib teev ua ntej pw.
Tsis muaj kev qaug zog
Cov menyuam yaus tsuas yog yuav tsum tau siv sijhawm hauv huab cua huv kom ntau li ntau tau, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau lub hli sov so ntawm lub xyoo. Qhov no yuav tam sim ntawd nce nws qab los noj mov thiab txhim kho nws lub hnub pw tsaug zog. Yog tias tus menyuam tsis tuaj koom thaum sawv ntxov, thiab lub sijhawm ntawd tau saib TV lossis tsis khoom ua si, thaum txog caij noj su nws yuav tsis nkees, thiab raws li nws yuav muaj teebmeem lossis ua tsis tau nws coj nws mus pw.
Hmo ntuj pw tsaug zog
Txhua tus me nyuam nws muaj nws lub sijhawm, uas qee zaum tsis nyob ntawm nws niam nws txiv txhua lub sijhawm. Yog tias koj tus menyuam mus pw ntxov thiab tau sawv ntxov, qhov no yuav tshem tau qhov xav tau ntawm qhov xav mus plob. Tus me nyuam tuaj yeem hloov nws yooj yim nrog kev so ntawm lub txaj nyeem phau ntawv lossis saib cov kev nyiam ua yeeb yaj kiab. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tias nws yuav tsum txaus siab thiab tsis yog capricious.
Kuv yuav hloov pauv lub sijhawm li cas?
Tus me nyuam cov caij nyoog ntau nyob ntawm nws niam nws txiv. Yog tias tus poj niam txiav txim siab: "Kuv tus me nyuam yuav pw thaum nruab hnub!", Nws yuav tsum nco qab qee txoj cai yooj yim. Qhov thib ib sawv ntxov, qhov thib ob yog mus pw ua ntej lawm, qhov thib peb yog lub sijhawm siab tshaj plaws hauv cov huab cua ntshiab, plaub yog tshem tawm ntawm cov suab nrov nrov thiab ua si ua si ib teev ua ntej naps, qhov thib tsib yog pab tus menyuam nyob rau kis ntawm teeb meem nrog kev tso tus kheej.