Nws tsis muaj hnub nyoog li cas koj tus menyuam tam sim no. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li cas, tus menyuam yuav tsum ua tib zoo npaj rau qhov zoo li tus nus kwv tij lossis tus muam. Thiab qhov no yuav tsum tau ua nrog tag nrho lub luag haujlwm.
Yuav ua li cas npaj koj tus menyuam rau cov kwvtij lossis nkauj muam
Tsis txhob zais koj cev xeeb tub ntawm koj tus menyuam. Nws yog tus tswv cuab tag nrho ntawm tsev neeg thiab muaj cai paub txog qhov hloov chaw tshiab. Qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias leej niam muaj ib tus menyuam mos hauv nws lub plab uas yuav los ua nws ib tug tijlaug lossis tus muam rau nws. Hais: "Ib zaug dhau ib zaug koj tau nyob hauv kuv plab, tab sis tam sim no koj tau ua loj."
Sim tam sim no los teeb tus menyuam rau qhov tseeb tias tus txiv neej me no yuav dhau los ua tus hlub tshaj plaws rau nws, tias nws yuav ua si nrog nws, taug kev nrog nws. Tau tawm cov duab ntawm koj thawj tus menyuam mos, qhia nws tias nws me me. Saib tsev neeg cov nkauj album tsim nyog kom tus menyuam tsis muaj lub tswv yim tias nws tus muam (lossis tus tij laug) yuav yug thiab tam sim ntawd khiav mus ua si nrog nws hauv tiaj ua si. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum to taub tias ua ntej ib lub pob me me uas yuav tshwm sim, uas yuav tsum tau saib xyuas, uas yuav tsum tau hlub.
Qhia rau tus hlob paub hais tias koj qhia nws zaum li cas, taug kev thiab noj mov nws tus kheej. Piav tias thaum mos ab yug los, koj yuav qhia nws tib yam ua ke. Thaum hais lus, nco ntsoov hais ib yam li cov hauv qab no: “Tom qab tas, koj yuav ua tus txwj laug. Koj muaj peev xwm ua tau ntau yam dhau los. Thiab los txog, thaum koj tus niam laus loj tuaj lawm, peb yuav qhia nws kom nws khawm kom pob, koj twb paub ua li no? Koj puas kam pab kuv? Cia tus me nyuam xav tias qhov tseem ceeb thiab lub luag haujlwm.
Sim ua kom ntseeg tus menyuam ntawm qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws txawm tias ua ntej yug menyuam - leej niam yuav hlub txhua tus sib npaug. Txawm li cas los xij tus menyuam yaus yuav tsum muaj lub siab xav tias nrog lub sijhawm yug tus menyuam yaus, koj yuav tsum tso tseg kev hlub nws, lossis yuav hlub tsawg dua. Tham txog nws tam sim no. Tom qab yug koj tus me nyuam yau, koj yuav ntsib teeb meem ntau dua li tam sim no. Thiab menyuam kev khib siab tseem yuav, nrog qhov teeb meem no ua ntej.
Cia tus menyuam yaus kov koj lub plab thaum tus menyuam thawb. Nws yuav nthuav heev rau nws. Teb txhua lo lus nug - “Vim li cas nws thiaj raug thawb? Puas yog kuv thawb thiab? Nws puas yuav thawb ntev? lwm yam.
Yuav coj li cas tom qab yug koj tus me nyuam thib ob
Yog tias koj ua txhua yam saum toj no, tom qab ntawd qhuas koj tus kheej tom qab yug menyuam tas. Vim tias lub sijhawm yuav mob heev. Tab sis txawm li cas los xij, nyob hauv ib qho xwm txheej twg, txawm hais tias koj poob ntawm koj ob txhais taw thiab npau suav nkaus xwb hauv ncoo, tsis txhob pub tus menyuam yaus ntawm qhov koj nyiam! Txawm tias koj nkees nkees npaum li cas los xij, ua si nrog koj tus menyuam, nyeem cov lus dab neeg, tham nrog koj tus menyuam xwb. Nws nco koj heev tam sim no. Tom qab txhua tus, yuav luag txhua yam ntawm koj lub sijhawm yog siv los saib xyuas tus me.
Sim nrog cov menyuam loj dua tham tam sim no. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas nyob rau thawj hnub tom qab yug menyuam, koj tus menyuam tsis thim rov qab rau nws tus kheej, thiab tsis pib khib koj rau tus me. Tom qab tag nrho, tam sim no nws tus niam hlub yuav tu lwm tus txiv neej me. Sib txuas lus nrog koj tus menyuam kom nkag siab tias nws xav li cas txog cov neeg tsawg tshaj plaws ntawm tsev neeg.
Qhuas koj tus txwj laug ntau npaum li ua tau. Qhia meej tias koj hlub nws. Hlub li koj siv los. Tias nws puas tseem hlub koj. Tsis txhob rau txim rau tus me nyuam, piav qhia rau nws tias nws raug txwv tsis pub ua suab nrov, piv txwv li, thaum tus me nyuam pw. Txwv tsis pub nws yuav sawv thiab quaj.
“Koj yog ib tus neeg laus. Peb tsis txhob cia siab rau tus menyuam."
Sim nug tus menyuam hlob kom pab. Piv txwv li, da dej me me. Cia nws nyob ntawd, tuaj pab zawv plaub hau, xab npum. Cia nws nkag siab tias nws yuav tsum saib xyuas tus txiv neej me me, vim nws yog tus tub hlob. Tab sis tsis muaj ib qho dab tsi tsis txhob cia cov menyuam nyob ib leeg, txawm tias ib pliag! Nyob rau hauv xws li tej yam, latent menyuam kev tsim txom, yog tias muaj, yog heev tshwm sim. Thaum, tom ntej zoo li tus menyuam hlob dua los saib xyuas tus menyuam nrog kev sov siab thiab saib xyuas, tabsis qhov tseeb yog khib thiab npau taws tias tus niam tam sim no siv sijhawm tsawg tsawg rau nws.
Tsis txhob yuam tus menyuam loj dua (txawm tias nws twb tau ywj siab rau qhov no) los zaum nrog tus menyuam thaum nws tsis xav ua. Piv txwv li, tus menyuam yaus tab tom yuav mus ua si hauv vaj, thiab koj coj nws mus saib xyuas tus me. Hauv qhov no, kev npau taws feem ntau tshwm sim.
- “Vanka (Katka, Lenka, Petka) tsis muaj ib tug kwv tij - nws taug kev ntsiag to rau nws tus kheej. Thiab zaum rau kuv tam sim no! Thiab kuv tsis xav tau leej twg hlo li."
Tsis txhob coj mus rau qhov xwm txheej zoo li no. Cia cov txwj laus saib xyuas tus yau thaum nws xav tau. Tom qab tag nrho, nws tseem yog menyuam yaus nws tus kheej!
Qhia meej qhov xwm txheej nrog me nyuam cov khoom ua si. Tsis tas yuav nug tus me nyuam loj dua tam sim ntawd muab tus yau rau lawv txhua tus cov khoom ua si, piav qhia tias lawv tam sim no tshwm sim. Cia txhua tus muaj lawv cov khoom ua si thiab qee yam khoom sib xws. Kom tsis muaj teeb meem - “Nov yog kuv! Tsis yog, nws yog kuv li! Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tom qab ntawd qhia cov menyuam kom sib koom khoom ua si nrog lwm tus, thiab qhov no kuj tseem xav tau kev qhia.
Kev khib siab thaum yau yog tsis zoo li yuav zam tau. Tab sis koj tuaj yeem npaj rau nws kom huv si ua ntej. Thiab muab cov lus teb rau tus me nyuam tseem tsis tau nug txog. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog saib xyuas. Vaj huam sib luag. Teem sijhawm ob peb teev hauv ib hnub thaum koj tsuas ua haujlwm nrog tus menyuam hlob. Nws xav tau koj tam sim no. Koj txoj kev saib xyuas thiab kev hlub nws yuav zoo dua rau nws dua ib lo lus. Xav kom koj tsev neeg tsuas muaj kev hlub thiab kev sib haum xeeb xwb!
