Kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov neeg nyiam nyiam txias tuaj yeem txias rau ntau yam. Ntxiv mus, ib tog tuaj yeem txiav txim siab sib tawg. Piv txwv li, ib tug hluas nkauj pib tsis txaus siab nrog hluas nraug, nws tau pom tseeb rau nws tias nws tsis npau suav ntawm tus khub lub neej zoo li no, uas koj tsis tuaj yeem tsim ib tsev neeg muaj kev zoo siab nrog nws. Txawm li cas los xij, txawm tias qhov tseeb tias lawv txoj kev sib raug zoo pib ua phem rau nws, ntau cov kev xav tsis zoo, kev hlub tseem ci ntsa rau hauv nws lub siab. Nws xav hnov qab sai sai txog tus txiv leej tub, tso nws tseg, hlub nws, tshem nws tawm ntawm nws lub neej, tab sis nws tsis tuaj yeem.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Nyob rau hauv ib qho plausible pretexts, txo koj cov rooj sib tham thiab cov neeg nyob kom tsawg. Thiab tom qab ntawd ib pliag nres lawv zoo rau nws. Tsis txhob coj nws tom tsev thiab tsis txhob mus rau nws tus kheej. Zam kev mus xyuas cov chaw uas koj muaj feem ntau ntsib nws, txawm tias koj yuav tsum fij mus ncig ua si rau koj nyiam cafes, bars, club, thiab lwm yam. Tsim nyog kawg.
Kauj ruam 2
Ntawm chav kawm, nws tsis yooj yim sua kom ua lub neej nyob zoo li kev hais plaub, yuav luag raug kaw hauv tsev. Thiab koj tus hluas nraug yuav tej zaum yuav sim rov sib txuas lus. Ua kom zoo, tab sis ua kom nruj, qhia rau nws paub tias koj tsis txaus siab txog qhov no thiab nws tau nkim sijhawm. Txiav txim siab tsis lees qhov kev sib ntsib thiab piav qhia. Nws tsis yog yuav tsum tau khoov rau kev thuam, kev thuam, ntawm chav kawm. Hais lus qhuav thiab luv heev. Piv txwv li, "Kuv tsis muaj sijhawm, Kuv muaj kev lag luam tseem ceeb," piv txwv. Thaum kawg, tus txiv neej yuav paub tias qhov no tsis yog koj lub siab whim, tsis yog kev coj txawv txawv whim, tab sis koj qhov kev txiav txim siab zaum kawg.
Kauj ruam 3
Cov txheej txheem zoo thiab siv tau zoo yog nco ntsoov txhua qhov kev thuam, kev kub ntxhov, kev nkag siab tsis meej uas tau tshwm sim rau koj vim tus txiv neej no. Muaj tseeb nws tsis coj tus yam ntxwv ncaj ncees tshaj plaws. Thaum koj tau hlub nws tiag tiag, koj zoo siab hlo zam txim nws, tab sis tam sim no lub sijhawm los nco txog thiab cua koj tus kheej: “Kuv tau ua nws txoj haujlwm zoo heev, kuv hlub nws heev, thiab nws yog … tsis paub ua tsaug!”. Ncab koj lub cim xeeb los ntawm nco ntsoov txhua yam nws ua txhaum thiab kev txhaum.
Kauj ruam 4
Tshem tawm txhua yam uas ua rau koj nco txog tus neeg no kom muaj kev txiav txim siab. Nws yog, ntawm chav kawm, tsis yooj yim sua kom "ntxuav" lub cim xeeb, tab sis kom tshem tawm ntawm pom nws cov khoom plig, cov duab dav dav, cov khoom plig, thiab lwm yam. ntau tshaj li qhov tiag. Muab pov rau hauv lub thoob khib nyiab tej zaum yuav tsis tsim nyog rau nws, tab sis muab nws pov tseg rau hauv cov chaw dai khaub ncaws lossis chaw dai khaub ncaws yog qhov yuav tsum tau ua.
Kauj ruam 5
Thaum kawg, nco ntsoov tias qhov chaw dawb huv tsis yog qhov chaw tas mus li. Txij li thaum tus neeg sawv cev tshwj xeeb no ntawm kev sib deev tsis tau haum koj, sim nrhiav qhov tsim nyog ntxiv uas yuav hlub koj tiag tiag. Thaum luag paub tias yus hnov tib txoj kev ntxhov siab, txoj kev hlub qub yuav hnov qab.
