Tus me nyuam muaj kev hwm rau cov neeg ib puag ncig nws, lawv txoj haujlwm, lub tswvyim thiab tus kheej lub neej pib nrog kev hwm nws niam nws txiv. Tab sis nws tsis tuaj yeem tshwm los ntawm kos, hwm yuav tsum tau pib coj los ntawm thawj hnub ntawm tus menyuam lub neej.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Yuam kom menyuam yaus hwm nws tus kheej, ua ntej txhua yam, tsis txhob ua raws li cov lus tshaj tawm "Nws ntshai, ces nws hwm." Ntshai thiab hwm yog yam sib txawv kiag li. Yog tias tus menyuam mloog koj tsuas yog ntshai tsam kev rau txim, kev mloog lus yuav ploj thaum nws loj tuaj, lossis phem tshaj, tig mus ua kev ntxeev siab. Thiab hwm lwm tus neeg yuav tsis tsim nyob hauv nws.
Kauj ruam 2
Tab sis yeej yuav tsum muaj txim tas li rau txoj kev ua phem. Txwv tsis pub, nws yuav xav tias txhua yam yog kev tso cai rau nws. Hauv qhov no, kev hwm yog tawm ntawm cov lus nug. Tom qab tag nrho, tus me nyuam yuav txiav txim siab tsuas yog nws tus kheej thiab nws txoj kev xav ua qhov tseem ceeb. Tsis txhob ntaus tus menyuam. Nws yuav zoo dua yog tsuas yog muab nws tso rau hauv kaum lossis txwv tsis pub nws ua si nws nyiam ib pliag.
Kauj ruam 3
Sim ua kom ntseeg tau tias koj cov lus yeej tsis nyob nrog qhov uas koj ua. Qhov no siv tsis tsuas yog rau txim rau kev ua txhaum hnyav, tab sis kuj muab khoom plig rau. Yog tias koj cog lus tias yuav mus rau mauv vim nrog nws, ua li ntawd. Yog tias nws tsis ua haujlwm, muab cov laj thawj zoo thiab nco ntsoov mus tom ntej. Yog li tus menyuam yuav nco ntsoov txog kev ua kom ruaj ntawm koj cov lus. Thiab kev cog lus rau txim ib yam nkaus. Los ntawm cov kev coj ua, koj yuav tsis yog tsuas yog txhawb nqa nws nyob rau hauv kev hwm rau koj cov lus thiab kev ua, tab sis kuj ua tus yam ntxwv zoo ntawm kev khov kho ntawm cov lus muab.
Kauj ruam 4
Tsis txhob dag rau koj tus menyuam. Tom qab tag nrho, menyuam yaus tuaj yeem hnov qhov tseeb, thiab lawv kawm paub dag los ntawm cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig lawv. Thaum lawv ntes koj dag ob peb zaug, lawv yuav tso siab rau koj cov lus. Thiab, yog li ntawd, hwm lawv ib yam nkaus.
Kauj ruam 5
Hwm koj tus menyuam. Uas yog: nws lub siab nyiam, xav tau thiab haujlwm yam koj nyiam. Thaum txiav txim siab ib yam dab tsi rau nws, sim nug nws lub tswv yim thiab. Tsis txhob xav tias nws yog qhov ua ntej qhov tseem ceeb ntawm menyuam yaus qhov ntsej muag. Hauv qhov xwm txheej no, tus menyuam yuav tsis tom qab qw tias nws tsis tas yuav hwm leej twg, vim tias tsis muaj leej twg txaus siab rau nws lub tswv yim. Nco ntsoov tias kev coj cwj pwm ntawm menyuam yaus yog nyob rau hauv qee qhov kev xav ntawm kev coj ua ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv.
