Coob leej ntau tus niam tsev ntxhov siab vim lawv tus menyuam tseem tsis tau pib hais lus. Raws li txoj cai, cov kev ntshai no tig los ua qhov tsis muaj tseeb, txij li ib lub sijhawm tus menyuam tau los koom tes nrog kev sib tham hauv cov ntsiab lus muaj txiaj ntsig.
Nco ntsoov tias tsis muaj qhov taw qhia txog lub hnub nyoog rau qhov zoo li tus menyuam hais lus. Qhov tshwm sim no yog tus neeg hauv qhov xwm txheej, thiab nws tsis txaus ntshai yog tias tus phooj ywg lub cuaj hlis tus tub tau ntev tau hu nws cov neeg hlub qhia "ma", "pa", "ba", thiab koj ib xyoos tus me nyuam los tawv ncauj es thiaj ntsiag to. Nws raug suav tias yog ib qho yog ib tug menyuam yaus hnub nyoog ntawm ib xyoos hais ob peb lo lus - ntawm ob txog kaum. Tab sis feem ntau cov menyuam mos txog ob xyoos hais lus tsawg, ua haujlwm hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog tus neeg hlub babbling, lossis txawm tias nyiam nyob ntsiag to xwb. Kev tsim kho ntawm kev hais lus hauv cov menyuam yaus muaj ob yam: kev nquag, lossis hais cov lus thiab kab lus, thiab kev nkag siab - nkag siab cov lus. Physiologically, nws yog li ntawd kev hais lus passive nthuav dav sai dua. Yog li ntawv, yog tias koj tus menyuam mloog koj yam muaj tseeb, yuav nkag siab txhua yam uas koj hais rau nws, thiab tseem ua tiav kev thov yooj yim rau nws, koj tsis muaj kev txhawj xeeb, txij li thaum tus menyuam hais lus kev loj hlob mus tau zoo. Txawm hais tias ib tug menyuam yaus yog tus neeg tawv ncauj txhawm txog thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob, qhov no tsis txhais tau tias nws tau lees tias muaj teeb meem nrog kev hais lus yav tom ntej. Feem ntau, cov menyuam yaus no pib hais yam tsis tau xav txog, thiab ua tiav cov kab lus ntev ntev tau raug. Ib qho ntxiv, nws tau pom tias "cov neeg ntsiag to" feem ntau hais cov lus kom meej meej tshaj li cov phooj ywg uas hais thaum ntxov thiab dhau lawv hauv kev hais lus. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj tseem txhawj xeeb txog qhov teeb meem ntawm koj tus menyuam lub ntsiag to, koj tuaj yeem pab nws hais lus sai li sai tau. Kev tawm dag zog uas muaj txiaj ntsig yog saib cov khoom nyob ib puag ncig koj nrog koj tus menyuam thiab tawm tswv yim txog yam koj pom. Piv txwv li: “Saib, tus me nyuam ntxim hlub zoo nkauj! Tus nws tau nrawm tuag tus dab tsi! Thiab dab tsi tiv thaiv pob ntseg! " lwm yam. Ntau zaus nrog koj tus kheej thiab tus menyuam cov kev ua nrog cov lus, hais kom tus menyuam nqa koj ib qho khoom ua si los yog ua lwm txoj haujlwm uas tsim nyog rau nws. Nyeem cov dab neeg thiab paj huam nrog cov me nyuam, coj mus so, txhawb tus me nyuam ua tiav qhov lawv muaj lub suab muaj tus kheej. Ntiv tes ua si yog qhov kev pabcuam zoo hauv kev txhim kho tus menyuam hais lus, piv txwv li "Magpie-dawb-sided", "ntiv tes hauv hav zoov", thiab lwm yam. Xav txog qhov tseeb tias kev hais lus uas ib tug menyuam hnov los ntawm TV lossis computer tsis pab hauv kev hais lus thiab feem ntau muab cov kev cuam tshuam. Nws tsim nyog qhia qhov kev txhawj xeeb loj yog tias tus menyuam yaus thaum muaj peb xyoos tsis tuaj yeem qhia nws lub siab thiab xav tau ntawm cov kab lus yooj yim, thiab tsuas yog cov neeg nyob ze thiaj tuaj yeem nkag siab nws rab taus. Nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no, koj yuav tsum nrhiav kev pab ntawm cov kws tshaj lij.
