Ib qho kev tawm mus rau tom lub khw nrog tus menyuam tsis muaj kev npaj ua ntej yog feem ntau yog qhov xwm txheej hnyav, thiab tsis yog rau tus menyuam niam thiab txiv nkaus xwb, tab sis kuj rau lwm tus neeg nyob ib puag ncig nws. Qhov xwm txheej zoo li no thaum menyuam mos cuam tso lub suab nrov ze ntawm lub txee.
Yog tias qhov no tsis yog koj tus menyuam, tom qab ntawv pom zoo tsuas yog kho qhov no nrog kev nkag siab thiab sim tsis txhob cuam tshuam hauv "kev sib cav" ntawm tsev neeg "scandals". Nws tsis zoo li tias qhov no yuav ua rau txhua yam zoo, thiab koj yuav tsuas ua rau tus saib xyuas tsis zoo, thaum tus me nyuam nws tus kheej yuav nyuaj rau nws lub siab.
Yog tias qhov no yog koj tus menyuam quaj rau lwm cov khoom ua si, thiab koj ntsib nws tsis tu ncua, tom qab ntawd ntsej mua nce ntshav thiab sim piav qhia rau cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig ib yam dab tsi (piv txwv li, koj twb muaj lub nkoj tag nrho ntawm cov khoom ua si hauv tsev), ib yam nkaus, tsis tsim nyog Cov. Nws tsis yog qhov yuav tsum tau tso pov tseg li kev yuav khoom, tab sis nws tsim nyog los qhia nws yuav ua li cas mus kav khw hauv qhov chaw uas muaj kev vam meej. Kev npaj kom zoo rau qhov kev npaj los mus tom khw yuav khoom thiab ua raws li cov cai hauv cov chaw muaj qhov tseem ceeb rau kev tiv thaiv qhov xwm txheej no.
Yuav pib nrog, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob saib tsis xyuas cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev ua ib daim ntawv yuav khoom ua ntej. Qhov no yuav txuag tau nyiaj tsis yog rau cov kev ntshaw menyuam yaus, tabsis tseem yuav txo txoj kev siv nyiaj tsis tau npaj ua ntej. Sib tham tom tsev txog yam koj tus menyuam xav tau ntau tshaj plaws, hais kom nws xav tag nrho thiab xaiv ib lossis ob qhov khoom ua si uas xav tau tshaj plaws rau nws. Ntxiv rau lawv rau hauv daim ntawv, txawm li cas los xij, thaum kawg, thiab hauv khw yuav nco ntsoov koj tias koj yuav twv yuav khoom siv khoom tsim lossis ntawv xov xwm uas koj xav tau, tab sis tsuas yog tom qab cov khoom lag luam uas muaj npe hauv koj lub hnab, koj muaj pom zoo ua raws li daim ntawv ua tiav thiab koj yuav yeej ncav cuag tus menyuam cov khoom ua si.
Yog tias koj twb tau paub txog lub khw uas koj tab tom mus saib, tom qab ntawd nws yuav muaj txiaj ntsig rau qhov kev xav ntxov ua ntej xav txog txoj hauv kev uas koj yuav tau txav mus los. Feem ntau cov khw muag khoom loj tau tawm ntawm lawv tus kheej cov khoom muag kom txog rau thaum koj tau txais rau qhov koj xav tau, tshwj xeeb, lub khob cij khoom noj, koj yuav tsum dhau los ntawm ntau yam khoom noj qab zib thiab ntau yam khoom siv hauv tsev, uas zoo li xav tau, tab sis nyob rau hauv kho vajtse khw yog ntau pheej yig dua. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, koj yuav tuaj rau ntawm daim tshev tsis yog tsuas yog nrog cov zaub mov uas koj xav tau, tab sis kuj nrog ib pawg tag nrho cov khoom lag luam, uas koj tsis tau npaj yuav.
Yog li qhov kev xaiv zoo rau kev yuav khoom nrog koj tus menyuam yog cov khoom yuav khoom, qhov kev xav ua ntej lub sijhawm, thiab koj tus piv txwv ua raws li phiaj xwm tshwj xeeb rau koj tus menyuam.
