Qee lub sij hawm cov niam txiv muaj kev nyuaj siab heev. Cov menyuam tsis xav mloog, tsis teb cov lus thov thiab lus pom. Feem ntau, nws tsis yog cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum ua qhov tsis zoo rau lub xeev no, tab sis yog niam txiv lawv tus kheej. Yog li, thiaj li tsim tsa kev sib raug zoo nrog tus menyuam thiab tsa nws kom raug, nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tau ua raws li ntau txoj cai.
Ncuav sijhawm tu koj tus menyuam
Ua kom muaj qhov zoo uas koj xav ua rau ntawm koj cov menyuam. Tus me nyuam tus cwj pwm yuav hloov tsuas yog thaum nws pom tias nws niam nws txiv tau qhia nws yam uas lawv tau txais uas muaj nrog.
Zam kev qw thiab tawm tsam txim
Nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom qhia tus menyuam yaus ua qhov yog siv qw thiab lub txim. Cov menyuam yaus to taub txhua yam ntawm cov lus thiab, yog li, lawv yuav tuaj rau qhov xaus tias lawv tuaj yeem ntaus lwm tus, qw rau lawv.
Yuav tsum tsis muaj ntau yam, tab sis qhia tshwj xeeb
Nws yog qhov tsis zoo rau kev thov los ntawm menyuam yaus nws yog dab tsi, vim nws lub hnub nyoog, yuav tsis nkag siab. Piv txwv li, hloov "ceev faj", hais qee yam tshwj xeeb, tsim nyog rau qhov xwm txheej, hais "ntxuav koj tus kheej", "hle koj lub tsho". Tus menyuam yuav nkag siab zoo dua, thiab koj yuav txuag koj tus kheej los ntawm kev nkim sijhawm thiab kev ua haujlwm.
Nws tsis yog tus menyuam yaus uas yuav tsum muaj kev txheeb xyuas, tab sis nws tus cwj pwm
Qhuas, xws li kev rau txim, tsuas yog hais rau tus menyuam qhov kev coj ua xwb. Ntawd yog, es tsis txhob hais tias: "Koj yog tus swb," nws yog qhov zoo dua los hais: "Kuv yuav zoo siab yog tias koj tso cov khoom ua si cia." Lub hauv paus ntsiab lus no yuav tsum raug hwm los ntawm txhua tus neeg hauv tsev neeg, txij li nrog kev ntsuam xyuas tas mus li ntawm tus menyuam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv txoj kev tsis zoo, qhov tsuas yog qhov tuaj yeem ua tiav yog qhov tsim ntawm qhov tsis zoo tus kheej thiab kev txo tus kheej.
Qhuas yog qhov tseem ceeb npaum li qhov tsim nyog ua kom tau qhov kev coj ua zoo los ua ib tus cwj pwm qhuas. Nws txhawb tus me nyuam kom coj tus yam ntxwv zoo.
Mob siab ua kom tsis txhob muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb
Ntau cov tswv yim yuav tsum raug siv los ua kom muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb kom tsawg. Piv txwv li, siv lub sijhawm, koj tuaj yeem tshem ntawm whims ua ntej mus pw lossis thaum lub sijhawm ua tsis zoo rau nws (txhuam nws cov hniav, ua haujlwm hauv tsev).
Yeej ib txwm muaj
Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau saib xyuas kom zoo txhawm rau txhawm rau kho cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb ntawm kev loj hlob hauv lub sijhawm. Qhov no, tsis yog, tsis txhais tau tias koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tso koj tus menyuam tso ib ruam. Cia li nyob ib ncig ntawm.
Tsis tas yuav nco koj tus menyuam txog qhov ua txhaum dhau los
Tsis txhob rov qab los tham txog qhov ua yuam kev dhau los, whims, thiab kev ua yuam kev. Kev hais lus tas mus li yuav ua rau kev tawm tsam thiab kev chim siab nyob hauv tus menyuam nkaus xwb. Nco ntsoov qhov ua txhaum dhau los ua rau koj tus menyuam nco qab qhov ua tsis yog. Pab koj tus menyuam pauv hloov mus rau qhov zoo dua qub uas yog qhia txog kev ua qhov yog.
