Muaj ob tus pojniam tseem ceeb hauv tus txiv neej lub neej: niam thiab tus txij nkawm. Qee zaum kev sib khib thiab nkag siab txog ntawm lawv. Yog tias nws zoo li rau koj tias koj tus txiv neej txuas ntxiv rau nws niam nws txiv, koj tsis tas yuav pib kev ua tsov ua rog thiab kev hem thawj nrog kev sib nrauj, saib kev thaj yeeb tab sis muaj kev daws teeb meem.
Kev hlub rau niam thiab txiv yog qhov sib txawv heev, tsis tuaj yeem sib piv. Tab sis tsuas yog lub sijhawm rau ob qho tib si tsis yog ib txwm txaus, yog li kev sib txhuam tshwm sim. Nws yuav tsum nkag siab tias nws tsis tuaj yeem xaiv kev xaiv ntawm cov poj niam no, ib tus tsis tuaj yeem ntxeev siab ib qho rau lwm tus, thiab vim li ntawd nws tsim nyog nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev daws teeb meem. Thiab feem ntau feem ntau hauv qhov xwm txheej zoo li no, nws yog tus poj niam uas yuav tsum tau hloov pauv hauv nws lub neej, ua kom nws nyob deb ntawm nws niam thiab txiv.
Hlub rau niam
Kev hlub rau leej niam feem ntau tshwm sim rau cov txiv neej uas loj hlob tsis muaj tus txiv. Tus poj niam tau siv nws lub neej tag nrho tsa nws tus tub uas nws hlub, nws ua txhua yam rau nws txoj kev zoo siab. Yog li ntawd nws thiaj xav tias yuav tsum coj thiab nkag siab tias tsis muaj dab tsi tseem ceeb hauv lub neej ntawm niam txiv. Nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom tig mus ntawm nws, vim hais tias cov nyiaj no tau ntxeev siab. Thiab nws, nyob rau hauv lem, tsis xav tso nws tus tub mus, tsis nkag siab yuav ua li cas tsim nws lub neej tsis muaj nws.
Niam yeej tsis tseg nws tus menyuam, nws tsis ntxeev siab, tsis ua phem. Nws xav tiv thaiv ntawm nws. Thiab yog tias koj sim cais lawv, kev mob hnyav tshwm sim, uas tuaj yeem ua rau tsis zoo rau hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus txij nkawm. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob txwv tsis pub muaj kev sib txuas lus, tsis yog ua kom tsis muaj lub sijhawm no, tab sis tsuas yog cais ob tsev neeg, kom txhais cov cai ntawm koj qhov chaw.
Kev sib raug zoo nrog niam txiv
Yog li ntawd nws tsis zoo li leej niam tseem ceeb dua, koj yuav tsum nyob sib nrug. Tom qab ntawd yuav muaj chaw seem rau tus txij nkawm, qhov twg nws yog tus poj niam thiab tus poj niam uas nws hlub, thiab tus niam qhov chaw, uas koj tuaj yeem nquag tuaj xyuas. Yog tias koj tus txiv tsis kam ua lub neej tsis muaj koj niam, tuaj nrog ntau yam hauv qab, tab sis tsis txhob qw, tsis txhob yws dub nrog kev sib nrauj lossis lwm yam. Tej kev scandals tsuas yog yuav ua rau qhov xwm txheej tsis zoo, yuav tsum muaj kev sib cav sib ceg, thiab tsis yog kev xav.
Ua phooj ywg nrog koj tus txij nkawm niam, tsis txhob ua yeeb ncuab tawm ntawm nws. Feem ntau nws lo lus tseem ceeb dua li koj qhov, vim tias nws tau nrog nws tus tub tau ntau xyoo, yog li nws tsis tsim nyog nkag rau hauv kev sib cav. Qhia nws tias koj yuav tsis coj tus tub hluas mus ntawm nws, tias koj yog tus nquag sib txuas lus. Hais kom nws muab tswv yim, nyiam kev noj qab haus huv, muab khoom plig me me. Nws qhov chaw nyob yuav pab tau zoo rau koj.
Yog tias muaj kev sib tw, koj yuav tsum qhia koj txoj kev hlub. Thiab yuav tsum ua nws yam tsis muaj kev thuam, tab sis ncaj ncees thiab hais tiag. Qhia tias koj hlub koj tus txiv, saib xyuas nws, saib nws rau nqi thiab ntseeg nws. Hauv qhov no, nws yuav pom tias koj ua qhov no tsis yog los ua pov thawj ib yam dab tsi rau nws, tab sis cia li zoo li ntawd. Nov yuav yog qhov kev sib cav tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Tus nws yuav cem tus yeeb ncuab yuav swb rau qhov kev sib ntaus no. Tab sis nws zoo dua tsis koom rau hauv kev tsov rog zoo li no, vim nws tsis tuaj yeem txwv txoj kev npau taws.
