Txhua leej txiv thiab leej niam tau ntsib kev npau taws hauv tus menyuam, tsuas yog qee leej thiaj li tuaj yeem ua tau. Dab tsi yog qhov qog ntawm cov menyuam yaus tantrum? Vim li cas nws tshwm sim? Yuav ua li cas koj thiaj tshem tau nws sai sai? Cov niam txiv no tau nug thiab lwm cov lus nug.
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, kev npau taws heev yog qhov kev tawm tsam uas xav tau thiab qhov xav tau. Yog tias tus menyuam yaus xav tau qee yam tsis zoo, tab sis nws tsis raug muab lossis qhov nws xav tau tsis quav ntsej, qhov no, quaj thiab kua muag tshwm sim. Thaum lub hnub nyoog yau, tus menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem tsim nws qhov kev xav thiab nthuav tawm kev tawm tsam ib txwm. Tshaj tawm nws lub tswv yim, nws qhov kev tawm tsam, cov menyuam yaus tsheb ciav hlau willpower, uas yuav pab tau zoo rau nws hauv lub neej laus. Yog li ntawd, koj tsis tuaj yeem tsoo nws. Lub sijhawm no, koj yuav tsum kawm los sib tham nrog koj tus menyuam.
Qhov kev ua txhaum ntawm ntau tus niam txiv yog qhov lawv xav txog qhov kev tshwm sim ntawm kev xav zoo li ib qho kev ua tau zoo tshaj plaws thiab nyiam kaw tus menyuam nyob hauv chav.
Yog tias koj tus menyuam rov dag kom nws ua dua, tsis txhob qw rau nws. Lus Cim! Cov neeg yau ntsiag to koj pib sib tham nrog koj tus menyuam thaum lub sijhawm no, nws yuav ceev nrooj thiab mloog koj cov lus. Muab lub suab tso siab, sim nug tus menyuam nrog kev thov.
Koj tseem tuaj yeem muab koj tus me nyuam cuam tshuam, koj tab tom muab ib yam dab tsi pauj rau qhov kawg ntawm kev npau suav. Tseem Ceeb! Koj tsis tuaj yeem txhawb tus menyuam nrog kev muaj nuj nqis. Qhov tseem ceeb yuav tsum tsis yog cov khoom - taug kev hauv lub tiaj ua si, caij tsheb kauj vab, thiab lwm yam.
Yog tias tus menyuam muaj lub suab tsis sib haum rau hauv qhov chaw pej xeem, sim coj nws mus rau lwm qhov chaw thiab coj kev sib tham raws li cov saum toj no.
Ib qho ntxiv rau tag nrho cov saum toj no, cov niam txiv hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no yuav tsum tswj hwm lawv txoj kev xav thiab tsis cia li poob siab rau txoj kev ntxhov siab. Koj tsis tuaj yeem teb nrog qw los ntawm kev qw. Tseem ceeb tshaj, sim ua kom zoo nyob thiab muab qhov tsis zoo tshuaj tiv thaiv.
