Txhua tus niam txiv paub tias txhua tus me nyuam tuaj yeem ua tau capricious, txawm tias tseem nyob ntsiag to thiab muaj kev kawm. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj tus menyuam tshaib plab, tsaug zog, nkees, lossis muaj mob. Tab sis qhov tseeb, tag nrho cov laj thawj no tsuas yog qhia dag, thiab qhov tseeb whims nkaum ntau qhov laj thawj ntxiv. Qhov "cag" yog nyob hauv tsev neeg uas tus me nyuam tab tom loj hlob. Txhawm rau qhia tus neeg ua si kom tsim nyog, nws yuav tsum to taub qhov niam txiv ua tsis ncaj ncees lawm, uas tus me nyuam teb nrog whims, thiab vim li ntawd, kom ntseeg tau tias ob tog muaj kev zoo siab.
Nws yog qhov tsim nyog
cov khoom ua si nyiam ntawm tus menyuam
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Tsis txhob txwv txhua yam rau tus menyuam. Yog lawm, nws yuav tsum paub thiab nkag siab txog lo lus "tsis". Tab sis yuav tsum muaj ob peb yam ntawm cov no "mustn'ts", qhov tsim nyog tshaj plaws. Yog tias tus menyuam raug txwv tsis pub nyob mus, thaum kawg nws yuav pib tawm tsam thiab ua txhua yam los ntawm qhov laj thawj. Txwv tsis pub dab tsi yog qhov txaus ntshai rau nws, nws txoj kev noj qab haus huv thiab lub neej.
Kauj ruam 2
Tsis txhob cia koj tus menyuam ua txhua yam. Coob tus neeg paub tus qauv Japanese ntawm kev ua niam ua txiv, nyob rau hauv uas tus menyuam raug tso cai txhua yam mus txog lub hnub nyoog. Tab sis tus menyuam yuav tsum paub dab tsi tso cai thiab dab tsis ntxiv. Txij li thaum nws yog tswv cuab ntawm tib neeg, ib tus menyuam txij thaum yau yuav tsum coj mus rau hauv kev xav thiab kev xav ntawm lwm tus neeg. Txwv tsis pub, tus menyuam yuav loj tuaj los ua tus neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj.
Kauj ruam 3
Ua kom muaj kev sib raug zoo hauv koj tsev neeg kev sib raug zoo. Feem ntau, tus me nyuam cov whims yog ib qho kev xav ntawm tsev neeg ib puag ncig. Tus menyuam loj hlob nyob rau hauv ib puag ncig ntawm kev tsim txom tsis zoo thiab muaj kev sib cav, ib txwm muaj, nws lub siab ntsws txom nyem los ntawm qhov no. Ntawm qhov tsawg kawg, sim tsis txhob sib cav lossis cais cov khoom ntawm tus menyuam lub xub ntiag.
Kauj ruam 4
Sim ua kom koj tus menyuam hnov. Sim kom nkag siab qhov uas tus me nyuam xav muab rau koj, ua capricious. Tej zaum muaj ib yam dab tsi loj dua qab cov whims. Piv txwv, qhov mob hnyav ntawm lub paj hlwb. Saib xyuas ntawm lub xeev ntawm tus menyuam txawm tias tom qab whims dhau lawm. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog tias koj yuav tsum mus ntsib kws kho mob.
Kauj ruam 5
Qhia koj tus menyuam kom hais tawm ntawm lawv cov kev xav, hais qhia yam tsis txhob qw thiab qw. Koj tus kheej piv txwv yuav ua haujlwm zoo rau qhov no. Nquag mus tham txog seb koj xav li cas hauv koj tus menyuam. Koj tuaj yeem npaj kev ua yeeb yam nrog kev koom tes ntawm koj tus menyuam cov khoom ua si nyiam, uas yuav qhia txhua lwm yam txog lawv lub siab xav thiab yuav coj li cas hauv zej zog. Raws li txoj cai, cov menyuam yaus feem ntau mloog cov lus qhia ntawm lawv cov khoom ua si cov phooj ywg.
Kauj Ruam 6
Tham txog cov qauv kev kawm nrog tsev neeg thiab cov phooj ywg. Qhov ntawd yog, yog tias ib tus ntawm tsev neeg txwv tsis pub tus menyuam, tom qab ntawd yuav tsum txwv tsis pub nws mus. Feem ntau, cov menyuam yaus ua capricious, yog tias, piv txwv li, niam txwv tsis pub ib yam dab tsi rau tus menyuam, thiab leej txiv tso cai rau tib yam.
Kauj Ruam 7
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam capricious nyob rau hauv ib qho chaw pej xeem, thiab nws tsis tuaj yeem ua kom nws nqig, maj mam coj tus me nyuam hauv koj txhais tes thiab mus rau ib qho chaw muaj neeg tsawg. Tham rau koj tus menyuam yam yooj yim. Cia nws hais lus thiab siab nqig. Piav qhia tias koj nkag siab nws lub siab xav, tab sis tam sim no koj muab tsis tau nws yam nws xav tau (piv txwv li, yog tias nws ua kom nws npau suav txog qhov khoom ua si tshiab tawm hauv lub khw).
