Nws yog kev tso cai mus lig tom chaw haujlwm lossis nrog phooj ywg tom qab ua haujlwm. Tab sis yog tias qhov no rov qab ua dua txhua hnub, nws yog qhov tsawg kawg rau tus poj niam saib nws nrog kev pom zoo. Kev xav ntawm kev plees kev yi lossis lwm yam kev txhawj xeeb yuav tuaj yeem tsis pom, yog li nws tsim nyog nrog koj tus txiv tham, tab sis hais kom zoo.
Nkag siab txog qhov xwm txheej. Nws yog ib qho yog tus txiv tuaj txog tsev lig vim ua haujlwm. Thaum lub sijhawm ua lag luam lossis thaum lub sijhawm qhia, cov kev ncua sijhawm no to taub. Nug tus txiv neej vim li cas nws qeeb thiab thaum nws tuaj yeem tshwm sijhawm raws sijhawm. Tsis txhob ua qhov tsis zoo, qhia tias koj xav tau thiab qhov ntawd yog vim li cas koj thiaj li tos kom koj rov qab los. "Kuv nco koj thiab xav siv sijhawm ntau nyob ua ke, koj puas tuaj yeem mus ntxov tom qab ua haujlwm?"
Tham txog nws lateness
Pib qhov kev sib tham sab xis. Muab nws so tom qab rov qab los tsev, noj hmo, thiab thaum nws nyob hauv txoj kev xav zoo, hais tawm. Tsis txhob tsa koj lub suab nrov, tsis txhob cuam cov lus sib liam, koj yuav tsum tau qhia tias koj tsis nyiam nws tuaj txog lig, vim hais tias koj yog neeg dhuav. Lossis cov menyuam xav nyob nrog lawv txiv. Tsim cov nqe lus tsis yog "koj yuav tsum …", tab sis "Kuv xav tau …", tom qab ntawd nws yuav muaj peev xwm saib qhov xwm txheej ntawm koj sab.
Yog hais tias kev hais lus tsis pab thiab nws tseem tuaj lig tom haujlwm, tso qhov xwm txheej ntawd. Tsis txhob sov siab noj hmo rau nws, mus pw tsis tos nws, mus taug kev nrog koj cov phooj ywg kom nws nyob ntawm koj qhov chaw. Tej zaum qhov kev tawm tsam no yuav pab ua rau nws qaug zog, thiab nws yuav xav txog nws tus cwj pwm.
Qhov laj thawj yog lwm tus poj niam
Tab sis qee zaum cov teeb meem tsis tuaj yeem ua haujlwm. Yog tias, thaum koj tus txiv los lig, koj tau hu xov tooj tom haujlwm, thiab nws tawm ob teev dhau los, tom qab ntawv qhov laj thawj txawv. Koj tsis tas yuav tsum tam sim ntawd tsim cov ntawv thuam, koj yuav tsum ua kom muaj kev ntxeev siab thiab khaws pov thawj.
Saib nws. Dab tsi hauv nws txoj kev xav nws rov los hauv tsev haujlwm? Kev ua haujlwm dhau sijhawm ua haujlwm sab heev, ua rau qaug zog thiab khaus, tab sis tus hluas nkauj, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, txhawb nqa, muab lub zog, thiab nws yuav luag ntxhi ntau dua. Feem ntau cov txiv neej xav tias muaj kev txhaum thiab muab khoom plig rau lawv tus txij nkawm yam tsis muaj laj thawj. Tsis tsuas yog hloov tus cwj pwm, tab sis kuj yog tus duab - nws hloov nws lub khaub ncaws, mam li nco dheev pib siv naj hoom thiab txaws nws cov plaub hau nrog gel.
Ua kom kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus poj niam nws tsis yooj yim. Nws yog txaus kom saib ntawm nws lub xov tooj ib zaug thiab saib nws cov lus. Yog tias nws tsis tawm hauv xov tooj tsis muaj neeg saib xyuas lossis tawm hauv chav mus teb "tus npoj yaig", nws tsim nyog ceeb toom.
Ua qhov kawg, koj tuaj yeem ua raws nws tom qab kev ua haujlwm. Nyob ze nws cov haujlwm thaum lub sijhawm kawg ntawm kev pabcuam, thiab tom qab ntawd saib nws mus qhov twg thiab nws tau ntsib leej twg. Koj tuaj yeem nqa ob peb daim duab nrog koj lub xov tooj kom nws tsis txhob mus teb.
Thaum koj paub tseeb tias koj tus txiv los txog tsev lig vim nws tus pojniam yuam kev, koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab. Seb koj kaw koj lub qhov muag rau qhov no, lossis nthuav qhia cov pov thawj thiab xav kom lawv sib cais, lossis tawm tus txij nkawm tsis muaj txij nkawm.
