Ib tug menyuam yaus uas tseem tsis tau muaj hnub nyoog peb xyoos tuaj yeem nkag siab ntau los ntawm niam txiv nkaus xwb. Muaj cov menyuam yaus uas hais tau zoo thaum muaj hnub nyoog li ib thiab ib nrab txog ob xyoos, siv ntau ntau cov lus ntawm kev hais lus, thiab lawv cov phooj ywg "tsis hais lus" kuj to taub ntau lo lus, tab sis hauv kev hais lus lawv siv tsuas yog 10-15 ntawm cov feem ntau tsim nyog sawv daws, ntxiv rau lawv nrog kev hais ntsej muag thiab piav tes piav taw. Feem ntau cov niam txiv lawv tus kheej yog qhov ua rau tus me nyuam tub nkeeg mus hais lus. Txhawm rau pab koj tus menyuam hais, muaj qee cov lus qhia hauv siab.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Tsim ib puag ncig uas txhawb kom tus menyuam hais lus
Ua piv txwv koj tsis hnov, tsis to taub tus menyuam, nug nws dua, lossis ua lwm yam uas nws tsis xav nug. Qhov no yuav yuam kom tus menyuam siv cov lus uas cov niam txiv tuaj yeem nkag siab.
Kauj ruam 2
Nthuav koj cov lus.
Tham nrog koj tus menyuam hauv lub suab nrov, nrog cov kab lus nyuab, tawm tswv yim thiab piav qhov koj ua. Tsis txhob lam thuam koj hais lus. Cov lus uas ib tug menyuam mloog tas li, ua nws tus kheej ntau zuj zus ntxiv - cov naj npawb ntawm cov lus thiab kab lus uas nws nkag siab, txawm hais tias nws tus kheej tsis tau hnov lawv.
Kauj ruam 3
Tsis txhob qhuab qhia koj cov menyuam
Txawm tus menyuam yaus uas hais tau zoo los tsis nkag siab txhua yam nws hnov. Tsis txhob nug koj tus menyuam kom nkag siab txog qhov nws tseem tsis tau "paub tab txaus", tsis txhob npau taws tias nws tsis muaj lub siab ntev mloog koj cov lus qhuab qhia. Cov menyuam yaus muaj peev xwm rov ua dua koj cov lus qhia verbatim, tsis muaj kev nkag siab dab tsi, nws, zoo li tus leeb, tsuas yuav yug koj cov lus.
Kauj ruam 4
Yuav tsum hais lus txhua yam
Tsis txhob siv "hom lus menyuam yaus" koj tus kheej, hais lus zoo li menyuam yaus, koj ua rau tus menyuam hais tsis tau lus thiab ua rau qeeb ntawm kev tsim cov lus kom raug. Nws yuav tau rov qab, thiab qhov no yog qhov ua ntev thiab nyuaj. Tsis txhob rub los yog kho koj tus menyuam txhua zaus uas nws hais cov lus tsis raug, yog li kom tsis txhob ua kom nws tsis txhob hais lus. Hais lus koj tus kheej kom yog, thiab maj mam koj tus menyuam thiaj paub hais lus kom raug. Tus menyuam yuav tsum txhawb nqa txoj kev ntshaw tsis yog kom hais lus xwb, tabsis yuav tsum sib txuas lus, tsim kev sib tham.
