Thaum nkag mus rau hauv kev sib koom tes, tib neeg tsis tuaj yeem txheeb xyuas kev sib raug zoo ib txwm. Qee lub sij hawm poob rau hauv kev hlub ua rau nws tsis yooj yim pom qhov tseeb tus cwj pwm ntawm tus khub. Thiab yog tias nws thiaj li tau tshwm sim tias tom qab mus rau hauv chav sau npe koj pom tias koj tsis yog ib nkawm zoo tagnrho, koj yuav tsum txiav txim siab qee yam.
Ua ntej thiab yam thib ib, siv koj lub sijhawm. Tsis muaj kev txiav txim siab nrawm, nws yuav tsis yog qhov phem. Tsis muaj cov neeg tsis muaj qhov tsis zoo, yog li koj yuav tsum ua tib zoo saib koj tus khub lossis tus khub. Tom qab ntawd nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub tias hauv kev sib raug zoo txhua qhov teeb meem yuav tsum tau los, thiab ntawm no nws yog qhov tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob khiav, tab sis kom nkag siab txog qhov xwm txheej.
Rov qab muaj kev sib raug zoo
Lub neej yuav tsum tau sim ua tshwj tseg. Yog tias koj tuaj yeem sib tham, sib tham. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tau hais kev tsis txaus siab rau ib leeg, tab sis tsis yog nrog qw, tab sis meej pem. Qhov no yuav tso cai koj los ntsuas qhov xwm txheej kom raug, txiav txim siab yuav ua li cas ntxiv. Qee zaum qhov sib txuam ua tau hloov tau me ntsis thiab txhais tau qhov tseeb.
Yog koj tsis tuaj yeem hais lus txias, hu rau tus kws tshaj lij. Cov kws kho kev nyuaj siab niaj hnub tuaj yeem pab. Lawv siv ntau txoj hauv kev los pom tus neeg nyob ntawm ib sab. Qhov kev hloov pauv tus cwj pwm, thiab tej zaum tsis yog txhua yam ua txaus ntshai.
So kom txaus tseem muab sijhawm rau koj los hloov siab. So kom txaus, nyob sib nrug me ntsis. Tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tsis tsuas yog nyob ib leeg, tab sis kuj yuav tsum xav txog seb koj xav tau kev sib koom tes. Qee zaum qhov kho siab ua rau tib neeg los ze zog, thiab qee zaum, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, nws cais cov neeg kiag li. Tsuas yog nruj me ntsis txhais lub sijhawm thaum koj yuav muaj nyob tsis muaj ib leeg, piv txwv li, peb lub hlis. Thiab tom qab ntawd txiav txim siab, tsis txhob ncua sijhawm rau xyoo.
Kawg so
Yog tias koj txiav txim siab tias tsis muaj dab tsi xa rov qab, ces koj yuav tsum ua lub luag haujlwm thiab tawg. Koj yuav tsum pib tsis txhob sau ib daim ntawv qhia, tab sis nrog kev sib tham ncaj ncees. Qhia seb vim li cas thiaj yuav daws tau qhov teeb meem no. Koj tau nyob ze ntev, yog li koj yuav tsum nyob nrog kev phooj ywg lus. Tham txog seb ib nrab yuav pom zoo rau kev sib nrauj, sim ua softer, tsis txhob mob siab.
Cov ntawv thov xa mus rau chav sau npe. Feem ntau ib hlis muab rau kev txiav txim siab, dheev tib neeg yuav hloov siab. Hauv cov xub ntiag ntawm cov menyuam yaus me, txoj kev tuaj yeem ncua sijhawm. Yog tias tsim nyog, ib daim ntawv thov rau kev faib cov khoom ntiag tug tseem sau rau hauv tsev hais plaub, yog tias qhov no tsis tuaj yeem ua kom haum. Thaum sib nrauj, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom pib qhia txhua yam tsis yog nrog yam, tab sis nrog tib neeg. Xav tam sim ntawd leej twg yuav nyob thiab yuav ua li cas. Qhov no siv rau ob tus menyuam thiab ib nrab. Nws tsim nyog rau txhua tus neeg kom xis nyob.
Nco ntsoov qhia rau cov menyuam tias tabtom muaj xwm dabtsi. Lawv yuav nkag siab koj tsuas yog tom qab, thaum lawv loj tuaj, tab sis nws tsis tsim nyog cia lawv nyob hauv qhov tsaus ntuj. Nco ntsoov qhia lawv tias nws tsis yog lawv qhov txhaum rau qhov kev tshwm sim no. Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau xav tias qhov kev tawg yog vim lawv, thiab qhov no dhau los ua kev mob hnyav.
Thaum sib nrauj, nws tseem ceeb tsis txhob ua phem rau txhua tus. Qhov ntau calmly nws mus, qhov zoo dua. Kev qw, kev iab liam feem ntau ua tsis tau nyob qhov twg. Nco ntsoov tias koj muaj lub sijhawm zoo, thiab ua tsaug rau koj tus txij nkawm yav dhau los rau txhua yam koj tau nyob. Txoj kev sib raug zoo, yooj yim dua rau nws lub neej tom qab.
