Cov menyuam yaus ua raws li niam txiv kev ua qauv thiab qog lawv tus cwj pwm. Txhua tus paub qhov no. Thiab nws tseem paub tias ib qho tsis tuaj yeem nyob tsis muaj kev sib cav ntawm txhua lub sijhawm. Cov neeg nyiam sib cav, sib cav thiab sib ceg. Tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum sib cav nyob rau ntawm cov me nyuam lub xub ntiag, xaus qhov kev sib cav nyob rau lub sijhawm thiab tsim ib qho piv txwv rau tus menyuam.
Qhov teeb meem tam sim no
Koj yuav tsum nkag siab kom raug qhov tseeb yog vim li cas rau qhov kev sib cav thiab daws cov teeb meem tshwj xeeb no tsis tas yuav nco txog cov kev tsis txaus siab yav dhau los thiab kev tsis pom zoo
Tsev kab lus
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom qhia koj tus txij nkawm txog koj txoj kev xav thiab kev npau taws. Tsis yog tawm tsam, tabsis hais tawm. Pib kab lus nrog "Kuv xav tias …", "Kuv xav …", thiab tsis yog "Koj yuav tsum tau …", "Koj yuav tsum tau …".
Tsis txhob hais lus cem lwm tus
Tsis txhob hais lus phem rau ib leeg nyob ib puag ncig cov menyuam! Txhua lub sijhawm tus menyuam hnov txog kev tsim txom los ntawm niam txiv ib leeg rau ib leeg, nws yuav pom nws ntau dua thiab ib txwm ua, thiab yav tom ntej nws tseem yuav pib txuas lus nrog koj, plam kev hwm.
Pov Ntawv
Koj yuav tsum hais lus kom yau, meej thiab muaj kev ntseeg siab, cav koj cov lus. Tus menyuam yuav pom tias qhov kev sib cav tsis yog sib cav thiab quaj heev, tab sis tiag tiag cov txheej txheem ntawm kev daws teeb meem.
Tsis txhob liam rau leej twg
Hauv chav kawm ntawm kev sib tham, koj tsis tas yuav hais tias qhov no lossis qhov chaw ntawd, qhov chaw lossis qhov xwm txheej yuav raug liam. Hauv qhov no, tus menyuam yuav tau siv los cem lwm tus neeg rau tag nrho nws cov teeb meem. Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb los qhia tias tsuas yog tus tib neeg nws tus kheej thiaj li muaj peev xwm daws tau nws cov teeb meem.
Kev cog lus thiab kev hem thawj
Thaum lub sijhawm sib cav, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob hais ntau cov lus tsis tseem ceeb thiab nrov nrov uas raug hnov qab tom qab nws. Tus me nyuam nqa tag nrho cov lus no, ntseeg nws thiab ntshai qhov tshwm sim.
Piav kom raug
Tom qab nrhiav tau tag nrho cov ntsiab lus, peb yuav tsum tsis txhob hnov qab qhia tus menyuam tias kev sib cav dhau lawm thiab txhua yam tau hais meej.
Tsis txhob "nkaum" menyuam yaus ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb
Qee tus menyuam yaus to taub qhov xwm txheej hauv tsev neeg zoo dua li tus neeg loj thiab pom thaum niam txiv kev sib raug zoo tsis zoo tshaj. Tsis txhob dag rau koj tus menyuam tias txhua yam zoo thiab tsis muaj teebmeem dabtsi. Yog tias nws pom lawv tus kheej, tsis muaj qab hau hauv kev tsis lees paub nws.
Cov lus qhia yooj yooj yim
Ib tug menyuam tseem yog menyuam yaus. Nws yuav tsis nkag siab tag nrho cov palette ntawm koj qhov kev xav, txhawj xeeb thiab resentment. Nws tsis tas yuav "thauj" nws nrog kev xav thiab cov lus qhia ntev ntev. Tus menyuam yuav tsum to taub lub ntsiab vim li cas thiaj li muaj kev sib cav thiab yuav ua licas thiaj tawm tau. Thiab tseem, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tau qhia rau tus menyuam tias nws tsis raug liam rau niam txiv kev sib cav sib ceg thiab tsis muaj dab tsi ua rau nws.
Qhov tseeb, tag nrho cov kev cai thiab cov lus qhia yog qhov nyuaj heev rau kev siv nyob rau hauv kev sib cav, vim tias qhov kev xav tau nyob ntawm qhov txwv, thiab tsis muaj lub sijhawm los xav. Tab sis, tau kawm qhov no, niam txiv yuav ua ib kauj ruam loj rau kev txhim kho thiab tsim kho tus me nyuam lub siab ntsws.
