Qee zaum nws tshwm sim tias lub tsev yog lub khob puv, thiab cov niam txiv ntawm tus txij nkawm tau nyob deb ntawm tsev neeg hluas, thiab cov lus nug ntawm cov menyuam tseem qhib. Yog tias koj xav tau menyuam yaus, thiab koj tus txiv ua lub ntsiag to txog qhov teeb meem no, koj tuaj yeem paub tshaj plaws los ntawm kev txheeb xyuas nws tus yam ntxwv rau koj thiab tsev neeg qhov tseem ceeb, seb nws xav tau menyuam yaus los ntawm koj.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Txheeb xyuas koj cov kev sib raug zoo, suav nrog cov tuab neeg zoo. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas koj tus txiv ua zoo rau koj, tshwj tsis yog koj muaj kev nyiam txog yam uas koj pom zoo nrog nws ua ntej. Txoj kev siab mos siab muag thiab kev hwm yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev kom nkag siab tias tus txiv neej xav tau menyuam yaus nyob rau hauv dav dav thiab ntawm koj. Yog lawm, nws tsim nyog suav rau hauv nws txoj kev npau taws, tab sis yog tias koj tau nyob ua ke ntev ntev, tom qab ntawd koj twb siv rau lub peculiarities ntawm nws tus yam ntxwv.
Kauj ruam 2
Nco ntsoov tias tus txiv neej sau tau sau li cas thiab saib xyuas tus cwj pwm li cas hauv kev daws teeb meem hauv tsev neeg. Yog tias nws (tsawg kawg thaum xub thawj) tsis tig los rau koj lossis lwm tus neeg tau txais kev pab, feem ntau nws yuav yog tus txiv yav tom ntej zoo. Tham nrog nws cov phooj ywg. Yog tias lawv ntsuas nws ua tus neeg ncaj ncees thiab nco qab tam sim ntawd qhov teeb meem thaum nws tuaj rau lawv cov kev pab, ces qhov no yog qhov qhia tau zoo.
Kauj ruam 3
Nco ntsoov tias txoj kev sib raug zoo twg hauv tsev neeg ntawm nws niam thiab txiv. Tab sis txawm hais tias nws niam nws txiv hlub menyuam, qhov no tsis txhais tau tias koj tus txiv ua raws li txoj haujlwm no. Mloog seb nws tham txog nws niam thiab txiv li cas thaum lawv tsis nyob ib puag ncig. Ib tug me nyuam tshaj me me tuaj yeem tawm tsam rau kev tawm tsam ntawm niam txiv qhov muag tsis pom kev hlub, thiab qhov kev tawm tsam sab hauv no feem ntau ua rau nws tag nws lub neej. Hauv qhov no, tus txiv yuav tsis tham txog leej niam lossis leej txiv txhua, lossis nco lawv tsuas yog cuam tshuam nrog qee qhov tseem ceeb (hnub ua tshoob, hnub tseem ceeb). Yog tias muaj kev sib raug zoo hauv nws tsev neeg, ces qhov no tseem tsis tau hais txog qhov tseeb uas koj tus txiv xav tau menyuam yaus, vim tias muaj ntau yam xwm txheej yuav tshwm sim uas tiv thaiv nws los ntawm qhov pom ntawm cov xeeb ntxwv.
Kauj ruam 4
Ua tib zoo saib txoj kev sib txheeb ntawm koj niam koj txiv thiab koj tus txiv. Feem ntau, tom qab yug me nyuam, tus niam tais, saib xyuas tus tub xeeb ntxwv thiab tus ntxhais, yuav luag sib haum xeeb hauv chav tsev ntawm tsev neeg hluas, uas koj tus txiv yuav tsis nyiam. Firstly, vim hais tias ib tug txiv neej ce tsis xis nyob thaum ib tug neeg txawv yog tas li nyob rau hauv lub tsev, nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, ib tug neeg. Thib ob, yog tias tus txiv neej ua lub luag haujlwm rau nws tsev neeg, ces nws dhau los, tsawg kawg, meem txom uas ib tug neeg sim hloov qee qhov kev lav ris rau nws tus kheej, txawm hais tias muaj lub siab xav zoo tshaj.
Kauj ruam 5
Yog tias koj tus txiv loj hlob hauv tsev neeg tsis tiav (nrog nws niam), ces nws txoj kev xav tsis zoo txog qhov ua tau leej txiv tuaj yeem cuam tshuam los ntawm kev ntshai ntawm lub luag haujlwm rau tus menyuam hauv plab. Ib qho ntxiv, yog tias nws niam tau hais tawm tsam txog nws tus txiv yav dhau los, ces qhov no tuaj yeem cuam tshuam tsis zoo rau koj tus txiv tus yam ntxwv rau menyuam yaus, vim nws ntshai tias koj, thaum muaj xwm txheej, yuav ua rau nws coj zoo ib yam li nws niam.
Kauj Ruam 6
Yog tias qhov no tsis yog koj thawj zaug kev sib yuav nrog koj tus txiv lossis nws muaj menyuam, ua tib zoo mloog nws tham txog nws tsev neeg yav dhau los, seb nws ntsib cov menyuam ntawm nws tus kheej kev pib. Yog koj twb muaj menyuam lawm, nug lawv seb koj txiv tshiab ua li cas lawv thaum koj tus txiv tsis nyob ze lawm. Yog hais tias cov menyuam yaus hais tias lawv tsis nyiam nws, tsis txhob dhia mus rau qhov xaus. Tej zaum koj tus txij nkawm yog subconsciously khib koj tus ex-txiv, tab sis xav tau cov me nyuam los ntawm koj. Thiab yog tias lawv yuav luag los ntawm thawj hnub pib qhia nws "txiv", uas nws tsuas yog kev zoo siab nrog, lawv ua si nrog nws lossis ua haujlwm hauv tsev tsis muaj qhov hnyav, tom qab ntawd zoo siab dhau: koj tus txiv yeej hlub koj cov menyuam, thiab yog li koj. Yog li, menyuam yaus tshiab tsuas yog lub sijhawm.
Kauj Ruam 7
Yog tias koj tus txiv muaj cov niam hluas lossis cov nus muag, ces thaum koj ntsib lawv, nco ntsoov saib lawv hais txog koj tus txiv li cas. Yog tias muaj kev sov siab txaus thiab tsis muaj kev cia siab ntau, ces koj tus txiv tsis tau txhob txwm ua rau lawv mob thaum lawv tseem me. Yog tias nws muaj tub xeeb ntxwv thiab tub xeeb ntxwv, thiab lawv nyiam txiv ntxawm, sim mus ntsib lawv ntau zaus. Nco ntsoov tias cov kwvtij nkauj muam txhua tus yeej nrog luag sib tw. Qhov no yuav ua rau koj tus txiv los xav txog cov menyuam hauv koj tsev neeg.
Kauj ruam 8
Nug nws ncaj qha txog qhov no, vim tias yuav tsum tsis muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb hauv tsev neeg ntawm cov teeb meem tseem ceeb. Yog tias nws tig qhov kev sib tham mus rau lwm lub ncauj lus lossis tsis teb ncaj qha, ces nws tseem tsis tau npaj qhov kev txiav txim siab ntawd. Thiab tsis txhob nug nws cov lus no ntau dhau, tos ob peb hlis ua ntej nug nws dua.