Cov kab lus nto moo "cov ntxhais sawv ntsug, sawv ib sab" tsis raug rau cov kev ua yeeb yam niaj hnub thiab seev cev yav tsaus ntuj. Nws tau ntev tau suav tias yog kev txaj muag rau tus ntxhais nws tus kheej kom caw ib tug txiv neej mus seev cev. Ntxiv mus, nyob rau txhua txhua hmo ntuj hwm nws tus kheej thiab txawm nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv disco, DJ yuav tshaj tawm "seev cev dawb" tsawg kawg ib zaug ib hmos thaum cov poj niam caw me nyuam yaus. Thiab tsis tau, tsis yog txhua tus neeg nyiam ua thawj kauj ruam thiab qhia rau tus tub hluas "seev cev." Thiab nyob rau hauv vain, vim hais tias, feem ntau yuav, nws yuav hais "yog".
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Txoj kev yooj yim thiab paub tseeb tshaj plaws yog los ua ncaj qha. Ntawd yog, mus rau tus txiv neej thiab tsuas yog caw nws mus seev cev. Tab sis kom nco ntsoov kom tau txais kev pom zoo, npaj nrog ceev faj. Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog tias tus txiv neej hluas thaum lub sijhawm no tsis nyob hauv cov phooj ywg: hauv qhov no, nws feem ntau yuav txaj muag thiab tsis kam lees. Los sis tej zaum nws tsis xav cuam tshuam tus txiv neej sib tham. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis txhob maj nrog kev caw yog tias tus txiv leej tub hais meej nkag mus rau ib qho twg los ntawm pawg neeg: tej zaum nws maj mus rau hauv chav dej thiab tsis tau nce mus txog ntawm kev seev cev tam sim no. Tab sis yog tias koj tus xaiv tau sawv lossis zaum nyob ib leeg thiab saib cov khub niam txiv seev cev, xav tias mus rau nws. Luag nyav thiab saib tus txiv neej nyob hauv qhov muag thiab hais tias, "Wb mus seev cev?"
Kauj ruam 2
Yog tias koj muaj sijhawm txaus, pib kom deb. Zaum ntawm tus txiv leej tub uas koj xav thov kom seev cev thiab pib sib tham txog ib tog twg, kev sib paub. Sib tham ib txwm, thiab thaum nkauj qeeb pib nrov, zoo li rov ua rau koj tus kheej, qw tias: "Qhov no yog qhov kuv nyiam! Cia peb mus seev cev!" yog tias ib tug txiv neej hluas pib tawm tsam, hais tias nws tsis paub yuav ua li cas los sis tsis hlub, qhia nws tias koj tsis cia siab ntawm tus tswv chav kawm, koj tsuas yog xav txav mus rau qhov nkauj zoo nkauj. Thiab txij li thaum koj zaum ntawm kuv ib sab, vim li cas thiaj tsis seev cev?
Kauj ruam 3
Yog koj tsis paub tseeb tus yawg yuav hais tias yog lawm, siv me ntsis kev dag. Mus cuag nws thaum nws nyob ib leeg, lossis tawm ntawm lub tuam txhab raws li qhov koj hais tias koj yuav tsum hais qee yam tseem ceeb. Thiab tom qab ntawd qhia nws paub tias koj tus phooj ywg coj koj "tsis muaj zog", hais tias koj yuav tsis caw ib tus neeg zoo li nws. Cov txiv neej nyiam flattery, rau qhov paub tseeb tias nws yuav tsis quav ntsej qhov kev qhuas no. Tom ntej no, qhia rau tus txiv leej tub paub tias tsuas yog nws tuaj yeem pab koj tam sim no. Thaum muaj kev sib cav zaum kawg, koj tuaj yeem tsis txaus ntseeg rau plooj plaub muag thiab hais tias, "thov." Nws tsis zoo li tias nws yuav twv tsis kam.
