Tej kev sib cav ntawm niam txiv thiab cov me nyuam yog lub ncauj lus hais txog yeej paub tsis tau. Lawv tau tshwm sim ua ntej, tau tshwm sim tam sim no, thiab yuav tshwm sim thaum hnub no cov menyuam lawv tus kheej los ua niam thiab txiv. Tsuas yog vim tias ntau tiam neeg muaj cov ntsiab lus sib txawv ntawm cov lus txhua yam. Tab sis tib lub sijhawm, cov niam txiv paub tseeb: lawv paub zoo dua qhov lawv cov menyuam xav tau tiag tiag, thiab cov menyuam yaus (tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov neeg uas twb tau paub tab), yog ib txwm muaj qhov sib txawv.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, nco ntsoov: koj cuam tshuam nrog cov neeg ze tshaj plaws. Yog lawm, qee zaum cov niam txiv muaj kev thab plaub, ua tsis ncaj ncees, khav theeb (los ntawm qhov pom ntawm ib tug menyuam, yog lawm). Tab sis qhov no yog niam thiab txiv. Yog li ntawd, lub suab nrov uas yog qhov tsim nyog nyob rau hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog phooj ywg, phooj ywg, uas qee zaum kuj cia lawv tus kheej ntau dhau, yog qhov tsis tuaj yeem nyob ntawm no.
Kauj ruam 2
Txwv koj tus kheej, teb lolus, txawm tias txhua yam yog hauv sab hauv thiab koj yeej xav rov qab nrawm dua. Qhov laj thawj tseem ceeb rau kev sib cav - tsis zoo (twb tau los ntawm qhov pom ntawm niam txiv) - yuav ploj mus sai.
Kauj ruam 3
Lwm qhov laj thawj yog qhov tsis nco qab txog tus menyuam, kev tub nkeeg, kev tsis kam pab. Nov yog ib qho piv txwv: niam nkees rov qab los ntawm kev ua haujlwm thiab pom tias tus me nyuam tsis tau ua tiav cov lus qhia: lub thoob khib nyiab tsis tau nqa tawm, cov tais diav tsis tau ntxuav. Lawm, nws yog tus thuam, ua rau neeg pab leg ntaubntawv. Lo lus rau ib lo lus, thiab ib qho kev sib cav sib ceg. Yog lawm, tus menyuam yuav pom cov lus tsis txaus siab: cov tshooj lus hauv tsev kawm ntawv, chav kawm ntxiv. Nws kuj yog tib neeg, nws nkees heev. Tab sis nws nyuaj rau nrhiav ob peb feeb los pab tus niam nyob ib puag ncig lub tsev? Qhov kev siv dag zog no yuav ua tiav tag nrho. Thiab kuv niam yuav zoo siab, thiab kev sib cav yuav tsis muaj tshwm sim.
Kauj ruam 4
Hauv rooj plaub uas tau piav qhia saum toj saud, yog teb rau kuv niam cov lus, nws tsim nyog tsis yauv, tab sis yuav tsum hais: “Thov txim, Kuv tsuas tsis muaj sijhawm. Peb tau nug xws li cov ntsiab lus nyuaj! Txog leej niam li ib txwm, kev kawm tus menyuam yog qhov tseem ceeb heev, nws yuav nkag siab.
Kauj ruam 5
Tab sis dab tsi txog hauv rooj plaub thaum cov menyuam yaus twb yog neeg laus lawm, tsis tas li ntawd, lawv tus kheej tau dhau los ua niam txiv, thiab leej txiv thiab leej niam tseem saib xyuas lawv zoo li menyuam tsis muaj kev cia siab? Lawv hu ob peb zaug hauv ib hnub, muab kev qhia, lossis cov lus qhia categorical. Ib tus tuaj yeem nkag siab cov nyom ntawm menyuam. Tsuas muaj ob qhov tawm mus xwb. Lossis kawm kom tsis quav ntsej txhua yam - mloog kom zoo, ua tsaug, paub tseeb tias koj yuav coj lawv cov lus qhia thiab tswvyim rau hauv. Ua raws li koj pom zoo. Lossis, ua neeg zoo, tab sis ua kom ruaj, qhia meej rau koj niam koj txiv tias koj tsis xav tau kev saib xyuas zoo li no.
