Cov kws tshawb fawb niaj hnub no tau xav txog cov lus hais dav dav uas cov menyuam muaj peev xwm muab tau los ntawm kev pib txij thaum yug los. Txhua tus niam txiv tuaj yeem kawm paub to taub qhov nws xav hais tus menyuam. Yog li koj nkag siab tus menyuam yaus li cas?
Yog tias tus me nyuam nyiam nyob hauv qee yam, nws tsis xav muab nws lub qhov muag tshem tawm (piv txwv li ib qho khoom ua si). Kuj qhib qhov ncauj, plaub muag ua si. Hauv qhov no, muab qee yam tshiab hauv nws txhais tes thiab cia nws ua si. Tham thaum ua si.
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam chim siab, nws cov ces kaum ntawm lub qhov ncauj yog downcast, lub pob muag yog "tsev", ib tus whimper yog nyuam qhuav hnov tau. Tsis txhob ntshai, tsis txhob poob siab. Nias nws nrog nws lub ntsej muag rau koj, hma, mob nraub qaum.
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam liab thiab xav tau koj lub siab, ces nws yws, qw thiab whimpers, thiab tseem tuaj yeem pov cov khoom ua si rau hauv av. Muab khoom ua si tsim rau nws: qhov ci ntsa iab uas ci, ua si. Hu nkauj rau nws, tab sis tsis lullabies. Tso cov menyuam nyob ib leeg ib pliag - nws yuav xav txhua yam puag ncig thiab kawm.
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam npau taws, ces nws lub ntsej muag dhau los ua pob liab liab, nws ob lub qhov muag tau kaw ib nrab, quaj nrov nrov, thiab tsis xav hu rau koj, yog cem. Yog koj paub meej tias tus menyuam tsis mob, ces feem ntau nws yuav tshaib plab lossis nkees thiab xav pw. Sim pub mov rau nws, ua kom nws nqig, ua kom nws siab nqig.
Yog tias tus mos ab tab tom saib koj kom zoo, nws txhais tau tias nws tab tom kawm koj. Saib rau hauv nws lub qhov muag, luag nyav, vim tias kev sib cuag qhov muag yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm niam thiab tus menyuam.
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam ntshai, ces nws lub qhov muag qhib thiab nws ntsia zoo nkauj tsis txaus. Tus menyuam nws tus kheej tseem tsis tau txaus siab, thiaj tham. Koj lub suab hais lus yau thiab yau yuav qhia rau koj tus menyuam paub tias tsis muaj kev phom sij.
Yog tias tus menyuam tsis xis nyob, nws quaj, tej zaum ntev. Nws lub ntsej muag yog npog nrog cov pob liab liab, nruj, ncaws tawm nws txhais ceg thiab nias lawv tawm tsam nws lub plab. Feem ntau nws yog colic thiab koj xav tau lub suab mos mos zaws (ua pev ncig raws li ib ncig xwb), ib daim ntaub sov sov.
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam zoo siab, ces nws luag ntxhi rau sab, cov ntsiab lus tsis sib haum ntawm nws lub qhov muag, nquag pliaj, txav mus los tau. Saib nws thiab sim ua kom lub siab ntev li ntev tau. Luag thiab hais lus, ua si nrog nws.
