Hauv kev nyob hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev nthuav dav, txhua tus menyuam yaus dhau los ntawm cov xwm txheej muaj hnub nyoog. Piv txwv li, kev kub ntxhov ntawm peb lub xyoos tau tshwm sim los ntawm menyuam yaus txoj kev qia dub thiab tus tswv lub siab rau txhua yam puag ncig lawv. Koj tuaj yeem hnov feem ntau "mine" thiab "kuv li". Vim yog tus neeg tawv ncauj, muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm cov menyuam uas ua rau lawv niam thiab txiv tu siab heev.
Thaum tu me nyuam-tus tswv, nws tsim nyog kom nco ntsoov tias thaum lub hnub nyoog no nws zoo li tus neeg thiab meej meej qhov sib txawv ntawm nws "Kuv" thiab lub ntiaj teb puag ncig nws. Txhua yam uas nyob ib puag ncig nws suav tau tias yog nws cov khoom, kom qhia tawm los tsis koom nrog nws, txiav txim siab ntawm nws tus kheej.
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, tsis tas yuav txaj muag los cem koj tus menyuam vim koj tsis xav qhia rau lwm tus. Thiab koj yuav tsum tsis txhob muab ib yam khoom muaj ntawm tus menyuam ib yam nkaus. Tus me nyuam cov khoom ua si yog nws cov khoom, nws tuaj yeem muab lawv pov tseg raws li nws lub siab nyiam. Tsis tas li, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob cia lwm tus neeg laus hu koj tus menyuam ua neeg ntshaw. Tus menyuam yuav tsum xav tau kev txhawb nqa los ntawm niam txiv. Thiab leej twg, txawm li cas los xij cov laus, paub tias cov khoom ntiag tug yog cov khoom ntiag tug uas tuaj yeem muab pov tseg raws li koj thov. Thiab yog tias nyob hauv ib pab pawg ntawm cov menyuam yaus ib leeg tau quaj, tsis tau txais yam nws xav tau, tsis tas yuav ua rau lwm tus thuam.
Muaj ntau kauj ruam uas koj tuaj yeem coj los qhia koj tus menyuam kom paub faib rau nws uas yuav pab koj tus menyuam hla dhau lub sijhawm tawv. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum piav qhia rau tus menyuam tias kev muab khoom ua si rau lwm qhov ntev ib pliag nws yuav tuaj yeem rov qab. Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau xav tias yog muab lawv qhov khoom, lawv yeej yuav tsis tau txais nws rov qab. Sim nqa tawm ntawm "kev sib pauv". Thaum ua si nrog lwm cov menyuam yaus, koj tuaj yeem cia koj cov khoom ua si tso ua si thiab tau txais qee yam txaus nyiam. Koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov tawm ntawm koj tus menyuam qhov kev xaiv. Txij li qhov no yog nws yam, nws yog nyob ntawm nws los txiav txim siab tias puas yuav koom los tsis koom.
Muaj ntau lub sijhawm hauv ib tsev neeg uas muaj menyuam coob, tsis tas yuav hais qhia tus menyuam hlob kom muab rau tus yau. Cov menyuam yuav tsum sib npaug. Tab sis yog tias qhov xwm txheej tshwm sim ntawm kev pib ntawm tus menyuam hlob dua, ib tus yuav tsum qhuas thiab ua tsaug rau cov mloog.
Tsis txhob tsom rau qhov xwm txheej thaum tus me nyuam tsis xav qhia rau lwm tus. Piv txwv li, thaum cov qhua tuaj thiab, ntawm chav kawm, lawv xav ua si nrog tej yam tshiab nthuav. Tus me nyuam tuaj yeem coj nws nrog qhov kev tawm tsam, thiab kev yaum hauv qhov no yuav tsis pab. Txhua tus yuav tsum koom nrog ib qho kev ua si uas txhua tus tuaj yeem xav, thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb yuav ploj mus.
