Mus tom khw nrog tus txiv neej yog qhov kev sim rau ob qho tib si. Yuav ua li cas kav kiab khw hauv tsev neeg hom thiab tsis nkag rau hauv kev sib ntaus?
Yog li hais tias qhov kev tshwm sim no tsis tig mus rau qhov tsis ua hauj lwm thiab tawm tsuas yog cov kev xav zoo nkauj, koj yuav tsum tig rau poj niam ua yeeb yam, qhia txhua yam koj xav, tsis nco txog txiv neej lub siab.
Ua ntej, tuaj nrog txoj kev ua nqi zog. Nws yuav yooj yim dua rau tus txiv neej los pab nrog kev yuav khoom yog tias nws paub tias "khoom plig" tseem tos rau nws. Qhov no tuaj yeem noj su hauv tsev noj mov, mus ncig nuv ntses lossis khoom siv cuab yeej cuab tam, yav tsaus ntuj tsis tau teem caij nrog phooj ywg, mus saib kev sib tw ncaws pob, da dej, thiab lwm yam.
Thib ob, ua rau kev npaj ua kom pom tseeb thiab pom zoo ntawm tus nqi. Tus txiv neej ntshai los ntawm kev tsis paub meej thiab maj tawm ntawm txee mus rau txee. Sau cov ntawv yuav khoom, nrog rau qee yam rau nws. Kev nkag siab meej ntawm cov txheej txheem thiab cov kev nyiam tus kheej yuav ua lub luag haujlwm. Txawm hais tias nws hais tias nws tsis xav tau dab tsi, saib ntawm qhov nws tau ua tib zoo kuaj thiab yuav nws yam khoom no ua khoom plig.
Thib peb, npaj ua ntej. Mus ncig saib lub khw lossis nkag mus rau Is Taws Nem thiab saib seb koj xav tau dab tsi, tom qab ntawd tuaj, sim thiab yuav. Yog li koj txuag koj ob qho tib si thiab nws qab haus huv.
Qhov thib plaub, tsis txhob noj txiv neej tshaib plab, los sis npaj khoom txom ncauj thaum mus yuav khoom. Tshwj xeeb yog tias nws kav ntev dua ob lossis peb teev. Tus txiv uas tshaib plab tsis yog lub tuam txhab zoo tshaj plaws.
Qhov tsib, ua neeg zoo. Yuav luag txhua tus txiv neej, nkag mus rau hauv lub khw muag khoom, yuav poob siab thiab zoo li nws rau nws tias kev yuav khoom yuav tsis muaj qhov kawg. Tshwj xeeb yog hais tias lub sijhawm no tseem ceeb heev rau kev ncaws pob yog hauv TV. Yog li, caw koj tus txiv neej los xaiv hnub, sijhawm thiab sijhawm uas kav khw ntawm nws tus kheej. Txawm hais tias nws tsis yooj yim rau koj. Tom qab txhua yam, kev sib haum xeeb hauv tsev neeg tseem ceeb dua.
Thib rau, yog tias muaj peev xwm ua tau yam tsis yuav koj tus txiv hauv txoj kev ua khoom lag luam, cia siab rau nws thiab cia nws nyob nws. Cia nws mus kev nrog tus menyuam, pw ua ntej TV. Thaum koj txias los ntawm kev yuav khoom, thiab nws yuav nyiam thaum, piv txwv li, koj yuav tsum nqa hnab nqa mus tsev lossis pom zoo xaiv.
Xya, muaj cov txiv neej ua rau nws nyuaj rau kev faib nyiaj nrog kev siv nyiaj. Thov nkag siab qhov no. Xa koj tus txiv kom sov lub tsheb lossis lwm txoj haujlwm thaum koj them tom tsev them nyiaj.
Qhov yim, kawm paub yuav nug thiab qhia kev ris txiaj kom yog. Tus txiv neej tsis to taub yim pab zoo. Yog koj xav tau kev pab tiag tiag, qhia rau koj tus txiv paub yam muaj kev hlub. Tshab rau txhua txoj hauv kev ua li cas nws yog ib tus phab ej thiab koj tsis tuaj yeem tiv dhau yog tsis muaj nws. Tsis txhob hnov qab ua tsaug tom qab. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav xav tau qhov nws xav tau thiab thov koj. Txawm hais tias nws yog kev sib koom ua lag luam lossis khoom plig tsis tau npaj cia.
